Band of Brothers Tulsa Area

Band of Brothers Tulsa Area Men banding together as the "Capital C" church. Growing inside so that we can make a difference outside
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Tulsa area men joining together as the "Capital C" Church. Building each other up on the inside, so that we can make a difference outside.

What you see in this photo is the celebration.  What you don’t see… is what made the men.You don’t see the tears.  The s...
05/08/2026

What you see in this photo is the celebration.
What you don’t see… is what made the men.

You don’t see the tears.
The silence after hard truths were spoken.
The late-night phone calls.
The walls coming down.
The confessions.
The fear.
The brothers refusing to let another man stay isolated.
The moments men climbed into the pit together and decided, “You’re not staying here alone.”

You don’t see the commitments made when nobody was watching.
The marriages fought for.
The addictions brought into the light.
The wounds confronted.
The pride crushed.
The identity restored.
The purpose awakened.

For 10 weeks, these men showed up.
Not to play church.
Not to wear a shirt.
Not for a highlight reel.
But to become dangerous men under the Lordship of Jesus Christ.

And because of Jesus… these men are not the same men they were 10 weeks ago.

I’m incredibly proud of every single one of you.

And to the leaders — Eddie Roach, Ryan Lombard, and Curtis Summers — people will never fully understand the weight leadership carries behind the scenes. The months of preparation before this ever begins. The meetings. The healthy conflict. The planning. The administration. The recruiting. The follow-up. The burden-bearing. The hard conversations. The unseen ministry when everyone else has gone home.

Men, you lived out “so others may live.”

You didn’t just lead sessions.
You poured yourselves out so other men could encounter freedom, brotherhood, truth, accountability, and Jesus Christ in a real way.

This is what happens when men stop hiding.
This is what happens when men submit to God and sharpen one another.
This is what happens when ordinary men fully surrender and Heaven touches earth.

South Tulsa… you finished strong.

Surrendered men! Those are the men God changes the world through.

The men of BandOfBrothers Broken Arrow finished strong!Week 10 wasn’t casual… it was a confrontation.We sat in it…Where ...
05/05/2026

The men of BandOfBrothers Broken Arrow finished strong!

Week 10 wasn’t casual… it was a confrontation.

We sat in it…
Where we started. The misalignment, excuses, silence.

Men being honest for the first time about what was really going on.

And we called it out for what it was.

Because burying it, numbing it, “rubbing dirt on it” never worked.

It left us isolated, ashamed, angry… or completely numb.

Something changed.Brotherhood stepped in,
intentional accountability, men who saw each other clearly and didn’t flinch.

We brought everything into the light.

And it produced something different…
Clarity, strength, movement and freedom.

Then we looked ahead… to the end.

Legacy… Who’s standing at your grave?
What did our leadership actually produce?

Because it will produce something.

If we were absent, lazy, selfish, distracted…there’s a cost.

-> To our wives.
-> To our kids.
-> To the next generation.
-> To the calling we were supposed to carry.

So we asked straight, Where are we still misaligned? Where are we running towards idols instead of God? Where are we still in control instead of surrendered?

No dodging and No hiding. Then we went to the fire 🔥.

Boards that once carried fear, lies, and strongholds… burned!

Not for show or out of emotion. As a line in the sand.

We saw victory!!!
Marriages restored, addiction overcome, suicidal lies broken.

Breakthrough in areas men carried for years.

We also saw pain, prayers that didn’t get answered the way we wanted and men still hurting… still fighting.

No one stood alone.

We laid hands.
We cried.
We lifted each other up.

Because even when the outcome didn’t change, the man did.

Jesus changes everything.

We left with a battle cry: We will walk in our identity, We will steward what God gave us,
We will show up in our homes, and We will lead.

Fully known -> Fully exposed -> Fully committed.

No masks. No pretending.

That’s freedom.

Week 10 wasn’t the end.

It was a commissioning.

So Others May Live

Last night, BandofBrothers South Tulsa finished the wave the way it was meant to be finished… around a fire.Ten weeks of...
05/01/2026

Last night, BandofBrothers South Tulsa finished the wave the way it was meant to be finished… around a fire.

Ten weeks of truth, accountability, of men refusing to stay the same.

We looked back at the boards we broke that represented what was breaking us. The weeks in between of harder work… calling things what they are, walking in obedience, getting honest about where we actually stand when no one’s watching.

And last night, we didn’t just talk about it. We brought it to the fire.

Boards that once carried fear, distraction, hidden sin, and survival mode… gone! Burned to ash. Not as symbolism for hype, but as a line in the sand. We don’t belong to that anymore.

Men stood there and told the truth out loud about struggle, about failure, about victory in Jesus that didn’t come easy. Su***de letters torn up and burned. Marriages that broke and marriages that are being rebuilt. Identity that was buried and is being reclaimed.

No performance or masks. Just men becoming who God actually called them to be.

Because leadership isn’t optional, it’s assignment. And everything rises and falls on it. So we looked straight at it… our homes, our minds, our choices, our legacy and asked the hard question, what are we actually building?

Then we answered it with fire.

We left what was killing us there.

And we walked away with clarity, conviction, and brotherhood that doesn’t flinch.

Week 10 wasn’t an ending… It was a commissioning.

So others may live.

We gave men rest… Not comfort.  Not a break from responsibility.  The kind most men avoid, because it requires them to s...
04/20/2026

We gave men rest…

Not comfort.
Not a break from responsibility.

The kind most men avoid, because it requires them to stop… and face what’s really going on inside.

For 15 minutes, at BandOfBrothers BattleCreek Church men stepped away…
no phones, no noise, no distractions.

And many came back wrecked.

Not because God suddenly showed up…
but because they finally did.

Some had to face the truth, they’ve been neglecting time with the Lord. God never moved away, they slowly did.

Not out of ignorance, out of distraction, pride, and trying to carry things on their own.

And yeah… that brings up shame.

But instead of running, they sat with God in it.

And what met them there?

Peace.

The kind that’s always been available,
but rarely accessed.

We came back in and said it straight:

We don’t lack God’s presence.We neglect it.

Then we took communion.

Not routine.
Not religious.

Personal.

Men looked each other in the eye and remembered:

-> His body was broken.
-> His blood was poured out.

The cost of sin.
The depth of His love.

And the reality that we’ve been given something eternal, yet keep drifting back to things that are dying.

Then we worshipped, we prayed & we took authority.

Over bodies: backs, shoulders, necks.
Over patterns: things running in men for years… even generations.

Because God isn’t distant.
He’s present.
He heals.
He restores.
He gives authority.

And we watched men step into it.

We saw peace, healing, & freedom.

But here’s what matters most, this doesn’t stop in that room.

At Band of Brothers, there is follow-up.
There is accountability.

Because powerful moments mean nothing
if they don’t turn into daily connection.

We’re not men of culture.
We’re men of God.

And men of God don’t drift, they return.

So here’s the challenge: Will you keep neglecting what you know gives you life?

Or will you step away, get quiet, and actually meet with Him?

Because if you’re not connected to the Father, what are you really building?

Most men aren’t losing because they’re weak.They’re losing because they’re wounded… and pretending they’re fine.Bradley ...
04/10/2026

Most men aren’t losing because they’re weak.
They’re losing because they’re wounded… and pretending they’re fine.

Bradley Burdette spoke last night and said, we hear “wounded warrior” and think military. God’s looking at fathers, husbands, and men in the church carrying silent weight that’s crushing their calling.

Hebrews 11:35–38 proves something:
The real heroes of faith didn’t have easy lives, they had endurance.

Hebrews 12 says to run your race and drop the weight.

But most men are out here sprinting with a backpack full of bricks:
• Divorce
• Abandonment
• Shame
• Guilt
• Unforgiveness

Then wondering why they’re exhausted, distant, and stuck. You don’t have a motivation problem, you have a weight problem.

Here’s where it gets uncomfortable… You can’t run your God-given race while refusing to release your past.

Jesus already gave the answer in Matthew 11:28 — Bring it to Him.

Not once.
Not halfway.
As long as it takes.

Trying to carry it yourself?
That’s not strength, that’s pride and it’s blocking you.

3 things men keep stuffing in the bag that wreck their calling:
1. Comfort
Comfort is killing more callings than failure ever will. You were not built for easy, you were built to lead.
2. Control
You want the outcome and the steering wheel- Doesn’t work. If you’re in control, you’re not walking by faith.
3. Cowardice
“I’m not ready.”
“I’m not enough.”
“I can’t do that.”

Exactly, that’s why God called you. If it’s not bigger than you…it’s probably not from God.

Real challenge for the men reading this:
• What weight are you still carrying that God told you to release?
• Where have you chosen comfort over calling this week?
• What are you trying to control instead of trusting God with?
• Where are you shrinking back instead of stepping up?

Philippians 4 reminds us: Contentment isn’t about circumstances, it’s about Christ in you.

Philippians 4:19 - God will supply what you actually need… not what keeps you comfortable.

A wound ignored is still a wound.  A cut still bleeds whether you acknowledge it or not.Too many men don’t heal… we cope...
03/30/2026

A wound ignored is still a wound.
A cut still bleeds whether you acknowledge it or not.

Too many men don’t heal… we cope.
→ We numb.
→ We distract.
→ We stay angry.
→ We “push through.”

But coping isn’t winning.
And walking around wounded isn’t freedom.

Tonight at Band of Brothers in Bixby was heavy… and it led to real freedom.

Nigel Eastman stepped in and didn’t play it safe, he went straight after the heart. He talked about our wounds… the ones we carry long before anyone ever sees them. Words spoken over us. Failures. Rejection. Even hurt from people who were supposed to represent God well.

Then he shifted it… If you’re still striving, still stuck, still carrying all of that… maybe it’s because you’ve never actually surrendered your life to Jesus.

Not religion.
Not behavior modification.
A relationship.

And in that moment, the room got real.

Three men said yes to Jesus.Three lives changed forever.

And it didn’t stop there.

We stepped into unforgiveness, really stepped into it. Not surface level… but calling it out… the bitterness, the anger, the hurt, the names, the memories.

Owning it.
Feeling it.
And then surrendering it to the Lord.

You could feel something break.

Men choosing, some for the first time not to numb it, not to bury it, not to mask it… but to bring it to Jesus and actually be free.

Because here’s the truth… Unforgiveness keeps you chained to what hurt you.
Freedom comes when you finally let it go.

“A wounded warrior is not a defeated warrior.”

God doesn’t waste pain, when surrendered, wounds become testimony, pain becomes progress.

So here’s the question:

What wounds are you still carrying?
What are you covering instead of confronting?
Who do you still need to forgive?

And maybe the bigger one… Have you actually given your life to Jesus or are you still trying to do this on your own?

Because freedom starts there.

Tonight wasn’t hype, It was real.

And it’s available to you too.

Last night at BattleCreek Church Broken Arrow BandOfBrothers, Brennan Seagraves  said something that stuck with me…“You ...
03/23/2026

Last night at BattleCreek Church Broken Arrow BandOfBrothers, Brennan Seagraves said something that stuck with me…

“You cannot make someone follow Jesus… but you can absolutely push them away from Him.”

Let that sit.

We talk about wanting influence…
but we don’t always take responsibility for how we’re using it.

King Rehoboam had influence and lost a kingdom because he listened to the wrong voices.

So the real question is, who’s influencing you right now?

Because your life is preaching something every day… through your attitude, your decisions, your habits.

And people are following it.

But here’s what fires me up…

God doesn’t write you off, He gives you a new start.

In Gospel of John 4, one encounter with Jesus took a woman from hidden and broken, to bold and impactful.

-> No platform.
-> No title.
-> Just obedience.

And because of that many believed.

That’s real influence, discipleship and salvation.

So here’s the challenge:

Stop letting the wrong voices shape your life,
Stop leading from pride or comfort, and stop playing small with what God’s given you.

Because when Jesus gets involved… it won’t just change you, it’ll change everyone around you.

Three men gave their lives to Jesus last night 🔥 That was the real highlight of Brotherhood Night. The gospel of Jesus C...
03/16/2026

Three men gave their lives to Jesus last night 🔥

That was the real highlight of Brotherhood Night.

The gospel of Jesus Christ was shared… and three men walked in one way and walked out completely different.

One line from the message stuck with me all night:

“I Won’t Run.”

From Gospel of John 10, Jesus talks about the hired hand, the one who runs when the wolf comes.

But the shepherd stays.

Ed Cline Jr. challenged the men in the room about brotherhood, leadership, and the responsibility God gives men in their homes.

He pointed to the men in Book of Nehemiah rebuilding the wall, working with one hand and holding a weapon in the other.

They understood something every man needs to remember: The enemy is real and your family is worth defending.

Another line that hit hard:

“Stay ready, and you won’t have to get ready.”

• Stay in the Word
• Stay connected to the men God placed in your life
• Stay engaged with God, not just when life gets hard

Ed also shared a personal story about a moment when his family desperately needed prayer… and the men around him showed up and went to war for his family.

That’s real brotherhood.

And it led to the best moment of the night: Three men surrendering their lives to Christ.

Some men run when things get hard.

But men of God don’t run.

They stand.
They lead.
They fight for what matters.

Tonight at Band of Brothers was powerful. Rob Beckley led a hard but necessary conversation about fear… the kind that qu...
03/13/2026

Tonight at Band of Brothers was powerful. Rob Beckley led a hard but necessary conversation about fear… the kind that quietly sits on the throne of a man’s life and keeps him living smaller than God designed him to live.

Rob challenged the men to face how fear shows up in our lives:

• The fear of failure
• The fear of not providing
• The fear of losing respect

When fear sits on the throne, it controls a man’s decisions. But when God takes that place, everything changes.

Scripture reminds us, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom.” When a man puts God back where He belongs. above every pressure, every opinion, every insecurity he begins to find the courage and peace he’s been searching for.

But the night didn’t end with a message.

Men squared off across from each other. One man held a board while the other wrote the fears, control, lies, and struggles that try to define him and keep him living smaller than who God says he is.

And the man holding that board wasn’t there to shame him.

He was there to remind him of the truth.

To remind him of his identity in Christ, not the sin, not the fear, not the control that tries to take the throne.

Then one by one, men chose to let go.

They invited the Lord into the deepest fears, the hidden struggles, the things that had become strongholds.

“Not mine anymore, Jesus.”

Men stepped forward, broke the boards, and brothers prayed over each other with authority.

The highlight of the night still wasn’t the boards, it was a man who walked in for the very first time. Somewhere in the middle of the message and men standing shoulder to shoulder, God moved in his heart.

Tonight he made the decision to give his life to Jesus.

That’s why we do this.

Because when men get real, when fear loses its grip, and when Jesus is lifted high… lives change.

Tonight heaven celebrated and so did a room full of brothers.

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