09/11/2026
Sermon in English for September 13, 2026. All rights reserved.
Forgiving Because We Are Forgiven
One of the tenets of Lutheranism is that we are all sinners. In seminary, we are told that we do not sin, and that is why we are sinners. We are told that from the very beginning, we are sinners, and that is why we sin. The fact that we ask for and receive God’s forgiveness throughout our lives should guide our conduct toward others.
No one is perfect. We all sin. Members of the Native American tribe known as the Navajo, who live in northern Arizona, are famous for the rugs they weave. But in every piece they weave, they intentionally make a mistake, because they say that no one is perfect—only God.
In the parable that Yeshua tells us in the Gospel, the debtor asked for and received forgiveness from the king for a debt that would have taken nearly twenty years’ wages to pay off. But later, he encountered a man who owed him a debt worth one month’s wages.
But instead of extending the forgiveness he had experienced from the king, the original debtor did not forgive his own debtor, and as Jesus recounts: “he had him thrown into prison until he paid the debt.” So we can understand how the king reacted: “You should have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had compassion on you.”
And here is Yeshua’s lesson for today. Just as we all receive God’s forgiveness when we sin, we must be ready to forgive those who offend us. There are people who, when they learned the Lord’s Prayer, learned to say, “Forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.”
There’s a little phrase in the Lord’s Prayer that people sometimes say without giving it much thought: “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.”
If we do not forgive someone who offends us, then God will not forgive us either. Once again, God will react as the king in the parable did: “You also should have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had compassion on you.”
At the beginning of this Mass, we went to confession, asking for God’s forgiveness. Just as God has forgiven our sins, we must be ready to forgive those who offend us. God sets the example for us, and Yeshua explains it to us through the clear example of the parable.
God gives us another example in the Old Testament. We remember Joseph, the son of Jacob. His brothers did not like him because he was their father’s favorite son. The brothers made plans to kill him, but one of them, Reuben, convinced them instead to sell him to some merchants who were on their way to Egypt.
When Jacob died, the brothers thought Joseph would act like anyone who had been wronged. But to their surprise, Joseph reacted like God. Joseph forgave them, but he expressed it in a revealing way. He said he forgave them because: “I cannot put myself in God’s place.”
The fact is, only God can judge. What remains for us is to forgive and let God do His work as judge. St. Paul, in his Letter to the Romans, tells us: “We will all have to appear before God, so that He may judge us.” That will be God’s work, not ours.
I urge you to take seriously what Jesus teaches us today. I learned this lesson in a somewhat unusual way. When my son Matthew was nine years old, I was the coach of his Little League baseball team. Well, my friend, Tony Coronado, was helping me with the team. There was only one umpire in this league, and we were convinced that the umpire was favoring the other teams. We took out one-dollar bills and waved them around to suggest that the umpire was on the take.
Well, at the start of the next school year, my school held its big open house so parents could meet their children’s teachers. Who do you think I saw walk into my classroom as the father of one of my students? Yes, the umpire. That’s where I learned not to judge anyone, because sooner or later, we run into those people, and it’s better to treat them with respect.
It’s not our job to judge. Now, forgiving doesn’t mean we have to let people keep doing bad things. Forgiving means we don’t hold a grudge against those people, but it also means we distance ourselves from them so they don’t hurt us again. God will judge the harm they’ve done to us; we don’t have to do that.
Today’s Psalm tells us: “The Lord judges with true justice.” But it also tells us: “The Lord is tender and compassionate; he is patient and full of love.” We must forgive because we ourselves have been forgiven by God. We have been in the position of the offender. We know how it feels to have made a mistake, to have repented, and to have asked God to forgive us.
So, when someone makes a mistake, we know what it’s like to ask for forgiveness, and we must be ready to extend that forgiveness to those who offend us. Not forgiving can be like drinking poison. St. Augustine, the patron saint of Tucson, advises us: Holding a grudge is like drinking a glass of poison and waiting for the other person to die.
We forgive for our own sake. Resentment is toxic. We gain nothing by holding a grudge. Forgiveness can give us a sense of peace because it brings closure to the action that caused us pain. This pain is often difficult to overcome. Feeling the peace that forgiveness brings strengthens us to face whatever the world puts in our path—whether it be health issues, employment challenges, or immigration concerns.
May we forgive as God the Father has forgiven us. We do not want God to say to us, as the king did in today’s parable: “You, too, should have had compassion on your fellow servant, just as I had compassion on you.” God the Father sets the example for us, and Yeshua explains it very clearly.
May we leave this Mass ready to forgive, because we ourselves have experienced the forgiveness of our sins—freely given by our heavenly Father and earned for us through the work of our brother and Savior, Jesus Christ, who bore the burden of our sins so that it might be lifted from us.
We must forgive because we are forgiven. And to celebrate this message, we will sing the same hymn we sang last Sunday, “Amazing Grace,” because it perfectly expresses the concept that God is always ready to forgive our sins. So be it! Amen.