08/30/2022
Pray for your enemy
Do you have an enemy? At times I have encountered people in my life who feel like an enemy. Christ taught us to love our enemies. And sometimes that feels hard. Jesus taught, “Love your enemies” and “do good to them that despitefully use you.” In 3rd Nephi, 11:29 it reads “For verily, verily I say unto you, he that hath the spirit of contention is not of me, but is of the devil, who is the father of contention, and he stirreth up the hearts of men to contend with anger, one with another.” Again, sometimes, lots of times in fact, it is just easier to be angry with people than to try to love them. Christ also taught us to pray for our enemies. I’ve always thought that the purpose of praying for your enemy was a way to accept that person in spite of the way that they think, or the way behave toward you. I believe that Christ taught us to love our enemies, because He loves all of His. And He is our example. And while I know that that is part of it, a new thought has recently come to me, a new idea that has helped me be able to see my enemies a little differently. We are to love our enemy, because in doing so we try to understand our enemy and the way they think, which is likely to be different than the way we think. But in that light, it could be, that because of the way I think, or the things I do, I myself am someone’s enemy. And I don’t want to ever be perceived as anyones enemy, so I genuinely want others to try and understand me, and the way I think, and the the things I do. And because I hope for this understanding from others, I too, need to strive to understand those that don’t think like me. Those I might call “my enemies.” If I can understand them, find common ground, teach, be teachable in return, and see for myself that they are more like me that I realize, I will be loving my enemies. When I can love somebody who is an enemy, perhaps then, they are not truly an enemy. It could being commanded to love them, is the route to understanding them, which leads to genuine love. The Saviors kind of love.
Dallin H. Oaks said “As I have lived for many years in different places in this nation, the Lord has taught me that it is possible to obey and seek to improve our nation’s laws and also to love our adversaries and our enemies. While not easy, it is possible with the help of our Lord, Jesus Christ. He gave this command to love, and He promises His help as we seek to obey it. I testify that we are loved and will be helped by our Heavenly Father and His Son, Jesus Christ. In the name of Jesus Christ, amen.”
I too, add my testimony too, that seeking the guidance of the Lord as we learn to love our enemies, will make the burden easier. I leave this message in the name of Jesus Christ.
Brother Bruce Jardine