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09/01/2026

I’m a POSER.
> I’m not a doctor.
> I’m not a clinician.
> I’m not a veteran or a first responder.
> I’m not really an expert in much of anything.

But I’m here.

I’m available. Interruptible. Willing to listen. And willing to help however I can.

Years ago, a CEO friend told me something I’ve never forgotten:
He’d rather have someone with limited ability and total availability than someone with incredible ability who is too self-absorbed to be available to others.

The older I get, the more I think he was right.

I’m thankful REBOOT has never been built around me having some heroic story.

It isn’t about my journey from brokenness to wholeness.

It isn’t about how well I speak, how I look in a photo, or whether I have the right letters behind my name.

I’m just me.

A dude who believes nobody should have to suffer alone.
A dude with more questions than answers.

And a lot of the time, I can’t fix what someone is facing.
But I can show up.
I can listen.
I can pray.
I can stay in the fight with them.

Veteran or not.
First responder or not.
Clinician or not.

TRUTH: We’ve overestimated expertise and underestimated availability.

Because sometimes the person who helps most isn’t the person with all the answers.
It’s the person who actually shows up.

Not everyone is called to fight.
But everyone is called to serve.

Here’s to Healing. 👊

08/07/2026

On Purple Heart Day, we honor those who have carried the cost of service.

We remember their sacrifice and pray for their families.

💜

07/02/2026

GIVEAWAY!!! The Thrive Conference is officially open for registration, and we are celebrating by giving away TWO SEATS for you and a friend. To enter, tell a friend she’s not alone in the comments and share this post!

You were created for more than just survival mode, military wife. You were made to thrive! Join us for a weekend of worship, connection and rest at the Thrive Conference.

What’s included:

Main speaker sessions with April Griffin, Ashlee Beasley, and K’Lee Reynolds—fellow military wives and co-founders of Homefront Heroes Ministries!

Breakout sessions that equip you to get out of survival mode and thrive in the joy of the Lord, through deployment, and the hardships of military marriage. Hosted by the military wives featured in our Thrive Video Series!

Worship and prayer time that allows you to rest and rejoice in God’s presence.

Connection with women who have been in your shoes and an entire weekend dedicated to knowing Jesus more, so you stand firm in His Word!

Onsite childcare hosted by the trusted and background checked volunteers of Rock Hills Church.

Meals and refreshments to include Friday night dessert, Saturday morning continental breakfast, lunch and post conference cupcake social!

Thrive welcome bag & giveaways!

Don't miss this opportunity to exhale. We'll see you there!

07/02/2026

Discover practical, biblically grounded guidance to help you understand your trauma and begin your journey towards hope healing.

06/16/2026

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Listen to this beautiful personalized song created for Steve Williams for their Birthday Celebration. Create your own at DivineSong.com!

06/13/2026

04/19/2026

People love to say military spouses “knew what they signed up for.”🙄

But the truth is… nobody really understands this life until they’re living it.

The strength it takes to hold everything together when your spouse is gone.
Running the house.
Raising the kids.
Handling the emergencies.
Making every decision alone.

Smiling for the kids even when you’re overwhelmed.
Staying strong when the news makes your stomach drop.
Holding down an entire household while the person you should be sharing it with is thousands of miles away.

Military spouses carry a different kind of strength.❤️

The quiet kind.
The invisible kind.
The kind people don’t always see… because we hold it together even when it’s heavy.

And no, no one truly “signs up” for how hard some days of this life can be.

But we show up anyway.

04/05/2026

Military life quietly teaches us how to live in the space between hope and waiting.

Waiting for the call. Waiting for orders. Waiting for the moment when heaviness finally lifts. Sometimes the waiting stretches so long that hope begins to feel like something we once had, rather than something we still hold.

Martha knew that feeling.

When Jesus arrived in Bethany, Lazarus had already been in the tomb four days. According to Jewish beliefs, many thought the soul lingered near the body for three days. By the fourth day, death was certain.

The burial cloths, wrapped.

The spices, placed.

The stone, sealed.

Grief settled into the room like a heavy silence – and Martha met Jesus in the middle of it.

“Lord, if You had been here, my brother would not have died.”

You can almost hear the ache in her voice. Her honest grief. The quiet question.

But Martha didn’t stop there.

She continued, “But even now I know that whatever You ask from God, God will give You.”

Two words changed the entire moment: even now.

No one present had ever seen a resurrection like the one Jesus was about to perform. There was no story to reference, no miracle to recall. Only a woman standing in the shadow of a sealed tomb, daring to believe that Jesus was still powerful enough for the impossible.

And maybe that is where some military wives find themselves today.

Maybe your “four days” looks like a deployment that feels longer than expected. A marriage carrying the weight of distance. A prayer whispered so many times you wonder if heaven still hears it.

Everything about your situation may feel final.

But Martha reminds us that faith doesn’t wait for perfect circumstances.

Faith whispers, “But even now.”

Even now, God is working in places we cannot see.
Even now, hope is not buried.
Even now, Jesus speaks life into what looks impossible.

Resurrection Sunday reminds us that the Savior who called Lazarus from the grave is the same Savior walking with us today.

So if your heart is weary in the waiting, hold onto Martha’s quiet courage and whisper it again:

Lord… but even now, I trust You.

John 11: 21-22

04/03/2026

This article speaks of the power of prayer…and our individual response to hard times and broken relationships…

Divorce papers rested on the table, heavy with finality. The future I once prayed for seemed out of reach. And yet, beneath the ache and uncertainty, a quiet truth remained: God had called us to something more.

What I didn’t know was whether we would walk into that calling. I didn’t come to the Lord confidently or composed. I came undone. I asked God to teach me how to pray—not with polished words spoken from a distant heart, but prayers that draw close and dare to partner with Him.

What followed wasn’t immediate rescue, but an invitation for a journey. The Lord led me slowly through Scripture, introducing me to those who learned to stand with Him in faith.

- Abraham taught me how to wait when promises are delayed.
- Moses showed me the strength found in humility and persistence.
- Esther revealed courage through intercession when the stakes are high.
- Hannah showed me how to pour out a heart honestly before the Lord.
- And Jesus—He taught me complete surrender, trusting the Father no matter the outcome.

Through their examples, my prayers began to change. I learned prayer is intentional, not passive. Fervent, not faint. Submitted, not striving.

Prayer is not a last resort—it is a partnership.

It is where heaven leans toward earth, and God invites us to agree with what He longs to redeem. Slowly, something began to shift. Not first in my marriage—but in me.

Prayer softened places hardened by disappointment. It taught me to intercede instead of accuse, to surrender instead of control. I learned how to hope again.

In His perfect timing, God performed a miracle—one that became the catalyst for restoring my marriage. But the greatest miracle was not the restoration itself. It was the transformation within me.

No perfect words describe the power of prayer. It is more than language—it is alignment. “The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective” (James 5:16).

Prayer did change my marriage. But more importantly, it changed me. And sometimes, military wife, that is exactly where God begins.