06/20/2026
[Parenting Tip] Do you rush to fix their feelings?
by Alexandra @ Big Life Journal
When my kids face a setback—whether it’s a tough loss on the field or feeling left out at lunch—my "fixer" instinct kicks in immediately.
I want to offer solutions, find a distraction, or do anything I can to just make it better.
But I’ve realized something important:
The goal isn't actually to stop the fall.
When we treat setbacks as a normal, expected part of life rather than a crisis, we give our kids the space to build true resilience.
Because at the end of the day, resilience isn’t about never falling.
It’s about knowing how to bounce back.
Our guide below will help you support your child through those heavy moments so they can find their footing again.