08/29/2026
President Gardner's Weekly Message: Perspectives and Parables
One of the things I love about parables and symbolic gospel teaching in general is that they enable us to see gospel principles and teachings through multiple lenses and from multiple perspectives. This helps us to actually experience the teachings rather than just learn them like facts from a textbook. Symbolic teaching has the ability to grow with us. As we do our best to live the gospel of Jesus Christ each day, our unique life circumstances provide context that allows symbolic teachings to deepen and widen our understandings, perceptions, and feelings. …we actually feel the truths more than just believe them or teach from others’ experiences. They become a living, breathing, growing part of who we are.
For most of my life, when I heard or read the parable of the Prodigal Son, I identified with the obedient son or sometimes with the father. I appreciated and learned and felt the lessons of patience, love, mercy, forgiveness, and acceptance from their perspectives. But several years ago, I read a talk by President Dieter F. Uchtdorf (The Prodigal and the Road that Leads Home) in which his words helped me realize… I am the prodigal son…as we all are…in need of forgiveness, mercy, and the embrace of a loving Heavenly Father.
Symbolic teaching sometimes can be very obvious…when the time and circumstances are right…it comes.
But often, it is much more subtle and must be sought through study, prayer, meditation, and fasting.
Regardless of when we go, or in which ordinances we may be officiating, in our temple worship there are profound eternal truths to be learned and experienced.
Some time ago, Shirleen and I attended a special training for Wasatch Front Missionaries in which they showed a video of a blind man running a rugged mountain race with the help of a guide to whom he was tethered. As they ran together, the guide offered verbal instructions to help the blind man avoid detrimental obstacles and find the safest path. The lesson and perspective shared at that time was that as leaders, we must allow those we are “helping” to “run their own race”…make their own choices. It is not for us to force or push others to do what we think is best. It is not for us to judge them. Rather, we teach, invite, and support in the Savior’s way, pointing out obstacles and options we can see. But over time, with help from leaders to whom I am tethered, I have realized that often, I am also a blind man… in need of guidance, encouragement, and support from others…especially from the Holy Spirit. This realization came very directly to me when President Nelson shared his now-famous quote…
”In coming days, it will not be possible to survive spiritually without the guiding, directing, and comforting influence of the Holy Ghost.”
The Lord’s use of parables and the many symbolic illustrations we find in the scriptures or the temple complement and accentuate the symbolic dealings God has with us individually as well. Into each of our lives, under the “guiding, directing, comforting influence of the Holy Ghost”, the Lord is offering us uniquely personal insights and instruction.
What has He shown you recently?
How have you responded?
How will your life be changed by Him?
One of the most symbolic teachings in our weekly teachings and worship is partaking of the sacrament.
How has your partaking of the sacrament and the meaning it holds for you evolved as your discipleship and faith have matured?
What might you do to create even deeper understanding and feelings?
How does your striving to internalize the Utah Area Vision: Joyfully Gathering Israel One by One in Christ, enhance your experience partaking the sacrament?
The 8th question in the temple recommend interview is,
“Do you strive to keep the Sabbath day holy, both at home and at church; attend your meetings; prepare for and worthily partake of the sacrament; and live your life in harmony with the laws and commandments of the gospel?”
When should we prepare for partaking of the sacrament, and what does our preparation look like?
With such busy lives, I pray there may be a way for us all, as individuals or as families, to be more intentional and mindful about deepening our experiences with sacred and powerful symbols given by our Father in Heaven and our Redeemer, Jesus Christ.
May they be living, breathing, growing part of our lives.
I love you all,
President Gardner