06/22/2026
“Dear unmarried Christian, one of the most dangerous choices you could ever make is to marry an unbeliever. Before you take a step down that path, consider the sobering consequences of such an unholy union:
1. You will never share true spiritual fellowship with your spouse.
2. You will not be able to read the Bible, worship, or pray together.
3. You will not walk with the Lord side by side, grow in faith together, or be united in spirit.
4. They will never love you with the love of Christ.
5. They will never truly understand the burdens of your heart, provide spiritual comfort, or have godly conversations with you.
6. Physical intimacy will eventually become a grief, for you cannot join your holy body to one who remains in darkness.
7. You will constantly feel torn between pleasing your spouse and obeying Christ.
8. You will struggle to raise children in the ways of God.
9. Your life goals will always clash: yours will be marked by eternal desires, theirs by earthly desires.
10. In times of crisis, you will not be able to trust the Lord together.
11. Your spouse will continually pull you toward the world, while you will never be able to pull them toward Christ.
12. Your spouse will not go to church with you, and may even hinder you and your children from attending.
13. Your spouse will introduce ungodly entertainment, habits, or friendships into your home, bringing strife into what should be your sanctuary.
14. As you grow in the Lord and die to self, they will remain enslaved to the flesh, with the tendency to grow worse.
15. Your ability to serve Christ freely and joyfully will be hindered.
16. Instead of your marriage being a testimony for Christ, it becomes a contradiction of His commands, weakens your witness, and reveals compromise.
17. You will always carry the burden that when they die, they will perish eternally in hell.
18 Since they do not have the Holy Spirit, they will never understand you. You will always be a mystery to them.
19 And when you cry out to God in your misery, loneliness, and regret, you will forever remember the disobedience that led you to this place.
My single friends, do not fall into the deadly trap of pursuing a relationship with an unbeliever. Never assume that you can save them by marrying them. God NEVER designed marriage to be a mission field. Disobedience will only bring sorrow and a lifetime of heartache. Trust the Lord to bring you the right man or woman in His perfect timing – someone who shares your faith and walk with Christ. It is far better to remain single than to be chained for life to one who rejects your Savior.
"Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers; for what partnership have righteousness and lawlessness, or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14).”
~ Wesley Norris