06/01/2026
Knitted by God
By: Dave Lawless
 This past week, while sitting in a small local café, having my coffee and panini, I witnessed a moment that has stayed with me. A young mother entered with two small children, one of them an infant perhaps six months old. As she lifted him from the stroller, I noticed a thin helmet-like device covering his tiny head from the nape of his neck to his forehead. I didn’t know his condition, but I could see the tenderness in the mother’s eyes as she held him close. It was a scene worthy of Norman Rockwell; a quiet portrait of love, sacrifice, and courage. As I watched, my thoughts drifted to my own grandchildren, especially the youngest, born with Cystic Fibrosis. I found myself wrestling with the question many of us carry in the quiet corners of our hearts: Why does God allow children, so innocent, so untouched by sin, to be born with disease or disabilities?
Scripture begins by reminding us that no child is an accident or an afterthought. Psalm 139 teaches that God knits each one together in the womb, knowing every detail of their bodies and every day of their lives. Their lives are sacred not because of their abilities, but because of their Creator. Jesus also made it clear that disabilities are not punishments. When asked why a man had been born blind, He replied that it was not due to anyone’s sin, but so that the works of God might be displayed in him. Throughout Scripture, God commands His people to honor, protect, and welcome those with physical or mental limitations, and Jesus Himself embraced children with tenderness and authority, declaring their value in the kingdom of God.
God often uses the smallest, most fragile lives to do the deepest work in ours. The Rev. Billy Graham told a story – “Many years ago, the world was touched by the short life of Robin, the daughter of Roy Rogers and Dale Evans. Born with borderline Down syndrome and a severe heart condition, she lived only two years, yet her life transformed her parents. A pastor once told them that children like Robin are sent to teach patience, compassion, and Christlike love. Dale later wrote Angel Unaware, describing how God used Robin to draw their family closer to Him. Roy Rogers himself became a new man because of her life.”
I’ve seen this same refining grace in my own family. The love, patience, and strength in my daughter and son in law have grown in ways I never saw before the birth of their two children—especially their son with Cystic Fibrosis. They may not fully see it, but I do. God is shaping them through their children.
Still, the hard question remains: Why doesn’t God prevent these things? The Bible tells us that sickness, disease, and death entered the world through sin, not personal sin, but the brokenness of a fallen creation. The deeper mystery is why God allows these things to continue. Scripture doesn’t give us a full explanation, but it does give us a model in Job. Job suffered without understanding why, yet he declared, “Though He slay me, yet will I hope in Him,” and, “The Lord gave and the Lord has taken away; blessed be the name of the Lord.” Job didn’t have answers, but he had trust.
Ultimately, we must confess what Job confessed: we don’t know why God allows certain things. But we do know that God is good, loving, and merciful, and that He is present in suffering. One day, because of Jesus, there will be no more sickness, disease, or death. Until that day, we walk by faith, trusting the One who sent His Son to heal the deepest sickness of all. And we cling to Jesus’ words about the man born blind: “This happened so that the work of God might be displayed in his life.” May we have eyes to see that same truth in the fragile, beautiful lives God entrusts to us.