06/14/2026
June 14
Did Jesus have trouble at home? Yes, and His actions help us see how to navigate our disagreements. Let’s take a look.
When Jesus was twelve, He went to Jerusalem with his family and friends to observe Passover. This was not a new trip – His family went to Jerusalem every year at the same time for the same reason.
But this year was different for Jesus. At twelve, every young Jewish boy, following bar mitzvah, was looking to choose a trade or a career. Jesus was the same way. His Mother and Father had informed Him of His miraculous birth and their few years in Egypt to escape the rage of King Herod, so He knew God had a plan for His life. Consequently, as part of His self-discovery, He ended up in the Temple having discussions with religious scholars. Everyone listening was astounded at His wisdom and His understanding.
Everyone except for His own parents. A day into their return to Nazareth, they noticed Jesus was missing and started their search. Imagine three stress-filled days as Mary and Joseph looked through the traveling families and headed back into the crowded city of Jerusalem searching for their missing son. Where did He sleep? What did He eat? Where did He bathe? Jerusalem was packed with Israelis from every part of the Roman Empire. How do you search for a twelve-year-old boy in that environment?
Thankfully, they found him – safe – in the Temple still in conversation with the religious scholars. Mary’s angst immediately triggered her Jewish mother mode.
Was she polite to the teachers with whom Jesus was conversing? Not hardly. Did she care that the crowd heard her voice. No. Did she remember the angel who told her she would have God’s Son? Doesn't sound like it. Or the prophet who attended her dedication of this boy twelve years ago in this same Temple? No. Did she let Joseph, who at God’s direction, swept her away to Egypt to save her and this child from certain death – did she let Joseph deal with Jesus? No. She spoke directly and only – and publicly – to her Son.
She interrupted the conversation with, “Son, why did you treat us like this?! Your father and I have been out of our minds frantically searching for you!”
Jesus’ response was, “Why were you searching? You should have known I would be about my Father’s business.” Did that calm her down?
No, His mother would have none of it. She said, “You’re going home with us, and you will stay with us. End of discussion.” So, Jesus submitted to His parents wishes and helped His mother raise His siblings for eighteen more years.
Luke tells us that in Jesus’ obedience two things happened.
His mother treasured this event in her heart and thought about it often.
Jesus grew in favor with both God and other humans.