06/22/2026
Even when things are going well, we have a tendency to focus on what's wrong. What could be better? What's missing? What isn't happening the way we hoped? We often find something to complain about.
The Israelites in the wilderness were experts at this. Even after God rescued them from slavery in Egypt, they constantly focused on what was going wrong instead of what God was doing right in front of them. Their negativity kept them from seeing God's faithfulness.
The wilderness was difficult, but their negativity made it even harder.
Negativity told them that God didn't care about their needs and that He had abandoned them. We hear those same lies today. Yet over and over again, God provided for His people. He sent manna and quail when they were hungry. He brought water from a rock when they were thirsty. God consistently provides to show that He cares, and He patiently reveals Himself again and again even when we doubt Him.
Negativity also tells us that obeying God won't make a difference. The Israelites repeatedly ignored God's instructions because they didn't trust Him. But God wasn't simply giving them rules to follow. He was shaping their identity. After generations of slavery, God was teaching them what it meant to be His people. In the same way, God uses obedience to form our identity in Him. Our identity is not found in our performance, accomplishments, or productivity. It is found in Him.
When life gets hard, negativity tells us we can't endure. It tells us the burden is too heavy and that we're on our own. It also tells us we have to do everything ourselves. But God often provides people to help carry the weight. Just as Aaron and Hur helped Moses hold up his arms and Jethro helped Moses share leadership responsibilities, God surrounds us with people who can support us if we're willing to ask for help.
Finally, negativity tells us to focus on the bad. The Israelites constantly focused on what they lacked. Moses, however, told the story differently. He acknowledged the hardships, but he emphasized God's faithfulness and rescue. We don't have to pretend everything is fine, nor do we have to fixate on what's wrong. Instead, we can intentionally focus on the ways God is working, providing, and saving. When we do, everyone's spirits (including our own) are lifted.
Negativity wants to keep us enslaved. But God is an abundantly generous God who provides, reveals Himself, shapes our identity, and surrounds us with support. He wants us to live with hope and freedom rather than complaint and despair.
So What?
1. What is negativity telling you right now?
2. How is God counteracting that negativity?
3. What action is God inviting you to take against negativity?