06/12/2026
How do you join a family? The answer is simple—you don’t. You become part of a family. Physically, that means you were either born into it, gave birth to it, or chose one another. Family is never a one-way relationship. It requires both belonging and being welcomed. And for belonging to happen mentally, emotionally, and spiritually, there must be commitment.
That is true for our movie family in Lilo & Stitch, and as we learned from Acts 2:42-47, it is also true for the church. When you look at that first glimpse of the early church, you can’t help but see it. They didn’t just share space; they shared meals, homes, burdens, and the responsibility of welcoming others into the family.
Of course, family does not create perfection. Like any family, there will be struggles, disagreements, frustrations, and difficult moments. What makes family different is that it’s not an organization you join; it’s an organism you become part of. And like any healthy organism, it is designed to grow and reproduce.
So, what does a healthy church family look like? Acts 2:42-47 makes it easy to identify the actions that contribute to health—teaching, prayer, fellowship, worship, and service. But while those actions matter, it is the attitude behind them that creates true health: “All the believers were together and had everything in common.” A healthy church family is committed to one another and united around the mission of caring for those already in the family while welcoming those who still need a place to belong.