09/04/2026
- DAILY REFLECTION -
Today's reflection compliments of Mary Raber.
Years ago, when I was an instructor at a Bible school in eastern Ukraine, my friend
and next-door neighbor, Serhii, invited me to his wedding. The night before, he showed me the beautifully decorated hall where the reception would be held. I knew that Ukrainian hospitality operates according to the principle that too much is just about enough, but this surpassed anything I had ever seen! The storeroom shelves literally sagged with food! Serhii was obviously proud of the lavish provision for his guests, but most of all he talked about Oksana, his bride-to-be. “I love her so much,” he confided, “I never knew I had it in me!” All of his thoughts, plans, and dreams were for Oksana because Serhii was her bridegroom—a man in love!
When the Pharisees grumpily point out that both their followers and those of John
the Baptist frequently fast and pray while Jesus’ disciples do not, He responds by referring to Himself as the bridegroom (v. 23). That is, Jesus declares Himself to be a man like Serhii, deeply in love with his bride, and intent on celebrating his wedding. It would be just as inappropriate for Jesus’ disciples to fast in those circumstances as it would be for Serhii’s wedding reception guests to refuse a bowl of beet borshch with sour cream! Who fasts when there’s a party going on? If Jesus calls Himself the bridegroom, what is He telling His listeners about Himself?
In the Old Testament, marriage is the most common analogy for the covenant
relationship between God and Israel. As a bridegroom loves and chooses a bride, so God has loved and chosen Israel (Deuteronomy 7:7-9; Isaiah 54:5). Consequently, Israel’s repeated failure to live up to that arrangement is termed adultery, vividly illustrated in the book of the prophet Hosea.
By calling Himself the bridegroom, Jesus identifies Himself with Israel’s God. He
also identifies Himself as a man in love. And who is the bride that He loves and longs for? The new Israel, of course, the new people of God who will eventually be known as the Church. Incredibly, that means us! Us!
Jesus is our bridegroom? My imagination fails. The most I can grasp is that Serhii’s
tender love for Oksana and their plentiful and delicious reception dinner somehow offer a faint hint of what Jesus wants for us.
Jesus, my Lord, my Bridegroom, please help me to receive the wonderful gift of
Yourself,