05/28/2026
MOM’S SWEET SPIRIT – Ephesians 6
Mom was known for her prevailing sweet spirit. Oh, she had her moments of frustration, depression and self-pity, but they were always overcome and she would regain the sweet richness of the Spirit of Jesus in control of her attitude and outlook. She had her outspoken moments of dealing with people and worldviews that opposed her values, principles, priorities and attitudes. She didn’t care for facial hair and let her boys know it. In recent years she struggled with not being able to hear conversations and the added frustration of keeping track of hearing aids that never functioned to her satisfaction. There were moments when she experienced the sadness of aloneness. Then she had to deal with pain, isolation, and immobility when she broke her leg during COVID. Only God knows the mental, physical, spiritual and emotional challenges she had to face over the course of her nearly 95 years on earth. But, with the inspiration of the Sweet Holy Spirit, she always seemed to rise above and find reasons to praise God and keep praying for others to do the same.
We know that Jesus was the secret to her resilience and prevailing sweetness. She found His presence with her in prayer, in meditating on the Scriptures, in the songs of faith, and in the fellowship and friendship of others who knew and loved Jesus – especially her family of 10 children and all their spouses and offspring. We celebrated all those things on what would have been her 95th birthday, May 12th, 2026. One of the things I wish we had more time to emphasize was a passage of Scripture that meant a great deal to her in overcoming the challenges to her mind, body, soul and spirit. It’s one she wanted shared as part of her own testimony, hoping others might benefit. It’s found in Ephesians 6:10-20 – hope you’ll read it. Here’s mom’s application:
Mom found her strength in the Lord and in His mighty power. Her sweetness was no accident or simply a totally natural personality thing. She armed herself against the devil’s schemes to discourage her and destroy her sweet spirit. She recognized that the struggle to sustain a right spirit was not against other people, nor the attitudes they brought into her life, it was against the enemy of her soul; against the spiritual powers of darkness and evil. She learned to be intentional about putting on the full armor of God, so that she could stand firm against all of the onslaughts of the devil which intended to take her down. She girded herself with truth, guarded her heart with righteousness, and stood firm and grounded in the Gospel of peace. She extinguished all the flaming arrows of the evil one with her shield of faith – she really believed that what she believed was really real. She guarded her mind and her thinking with the helmet of salvation – she knew above all else that Jesus was her salvation and nothing was going to change her mind. All those pieces of armor provided a strong defense and fortress for her sweet spirit. Her offense was the sword of the Spirit; that would be the word of God. She had so many Bible passages that sustained and encouraged her; they empowered her to do serious damage against the spiritual foes that sought to bring her down.
And her sustenance came from a spirit of prayer. It was rare not to end a phone conversation or visit with Mom without prayer. She always wanted her words to be seasoned with grace and hope, in ways that honored the Lord of her life. There was not a request for prayer that she ever turned down and was always alert to the needs of the Lord’s people. Mom was not bashful about the gospel and left no doubt about her confidence in the Good News of salvation through faith in Jesus. She wanted everyone to come to know the same assurance, peace, joy and contentment that empowered her sweet spirit.
Mom wanted everyone to learn to keep their eyes on Jesus who is the author and perfector of our faith; to consider what He endured at the hands of oppositional people for the sake of our salvation. He endured the false accusations and the shameful excuse for a trial; He took the brutal whipping and the mockery from both the soldiers and the mob; He endured the hateful spitting in His face and pulling out of His beard; He stood before the riotous crowd in a purple robe meant for scorn, all the while with blood dripping from His head from the crown of thorns forcefully pressed into His brow; He carried His own cross up Calvary’s hill until He fell beneath the load; Jesus willingly embraced the nails that the soldiers drove into His hands and feet; He accepted the jarring thud of the cross as it slammed into the hole in the ground, wrenching every joint in His body out of socket. This was perfect faith in action, overcoming all the brutality and hate that the devil could muster through humans. And even in death, He forgave!
Mom would say that the secret to sustaining a sweet spirit is found in intimacy with the author and perfector of faith. She would agree with some things that I once wrote in a poem:
Though often you’re hurt, neglected alone, and tempted to cash it all in,
Remember that Christ left His heavenly home, to suffer and die for OUR sin.
Oh, He gave ALL He had, in spite of the shame, and even in death He forgave.
His promise to all who believe on His name, from wages of sin He will save.
So, now can you see that the answer for you, lies not in defense of your rights?
But if you indeed will find love that is true, you must give the WHOLE of your life.
That’s what Jesus did, and Mom followed His example (which resulted in her sweetness). How about you?