09/11/2026
🔥 𝓓𝓪𝓲𝓵𝔂 𝓓𝓮𝓿𝓸 🔥
I think this is something we all struggle with at times, getting angry. I know I do. There have been times when someone says something hurtful, treats me unfairly, misunderstands me, or pushes a button I didn’t even realize I had and my first reaction is to get angry. Sometimes I react before I even really think about what I’m saying. Then afterwards, I sit back and think, “Was that really how God wanted me to respond?” The truth is, sometimes my anger gets the best of me. Sometimes I hold onto things longer than I should. I replay conversations in my head. I think about what I should have said or what I wish I would have said and the more I think about it, the more angry I become. That’s what really stands out to me in this verse, “anger lodges in the heart”. Anger doesn’t always just come and go. Sometimes we allow it to stay. I know for me, when I hold onto anger, it doesn’t make me feel better. It steals my peace. It affects the way I treat people. It puts something between me and God and that’s something I’m still learning. God isn’t asking me to pretend that things don’t hurt. He’s not asking me to act like I don’t get angry. He’s asking me what I’m going to do with that anger. James 1:19 says, “Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger.” That’s hard for me sometimes. Especially when I feel like I’m right and when I feel like I have a good reason to be angry but I’ve had to realize that being right doesn’t give me permission to respond the wrong way. Sometimes I have to stop and say, God, I’m angry, I’m hurt, and honestly, I don’t want to let this go right now. But I don’t want this anger to change my heart because I don’t want to be someone who’s always angry. I don’t want to carry bitterness around. I don’t want something somebody did to me to change the person God is trying to make me. So I’m learning to pause, I’m learning to pray before I react, I’m learning that sometimes I need to be quiet instead of saying exactly what’s on my mind, and I’m learning that forgiveness isn’t always about saying what happened was okay. Sometimes forgiveness is simply saying, “I’m not going to carry this anymore. I’m giving it to God.” I’m still a work in progress when it comes to anger but I’m thankful that God doesn’t give up on me when I get it wrong. He keeps working on my heart and that’s my prayer, not that I’ll never get angry, but that when anger comes, I won’t let it take control of me. God knows my heart. He knows how quickly I can become angry and how hard it can be for me to let things go. If you’re like me and struggle with anger, I pray we ask God to soften our hearts, change our reactions, help us forgive, and help us become more like Him, even in the moments when it’s hardest. Lord, I don’t want anger to live in me. I only want You and for You to have control.
~ H.P.