08/17/2026
We talk a lot about wanting the will of God… but what happens when His will doesn’t look like ours?
Israel wanted a king so badly that God allowed them to have one—even after warning them. They got what they asked for, but that didn’t mean it was what pleased God. God’s permission is not always God’s pleasure.
Then we see Jesus in Gethsemane:
“Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.” — Luke 22:42 NLT
That is submission.
Submission doesn’t mean I don’t have desires. It means my desires don’t sit on the throne. I can tell God what I want and still trust Him enough to let His answer overrule mine.
And then there is the perfect will of God. Romans 12:2 tells us that as God transforms the way we think, we learn to know His will—His good, pleasing, and perfect will.
So maybe the question isn’t simply, “God, will You allow this?”
Maybe the deeper questions are: Does this please You? Am I surrendered enough to accept Your answer? Do I trust that Your will is better than mine—even when I don’t understand it?
I don’t want to live my life settling for what God will permit because I refused to surrender. I want a heart submitted enough to desire what pleases Him and a mind renewed enough to discern His perfect will.
And when what I want collides with what God wants, may I have enough trust to say:
Nevertheless.
Your will, not mine.
Because sometimes spiritual maturity isn’t demonstrated by how well we celebrate God’s yes.
Sometimes it’s revealed by whether we can hear His no…
and still call Him good.