OneFlesh

11/09/2022

Ok , non s*xual intimacy is important, and maybe more important than s*x. Having the non s*xual connections , touches , creates connection to your husband and wife. This is especially true for us women . So... you want better s*x .. start with non s*xual intimacy .

09/29/2022

08/26/2022

Problems in your marriage typically come from some of these most common roots.

- Lack of intimacy- God created intimacy, If one spouse does not want intimacy and never does, it may be due to hormone imbalance or other issues. Its ok to reach out for help. This is vital for your marriage.
-Finanial issues- Money causes issues. We all know this and if you dont, you will prob one day find out. It s more like the "lack of " that I see causes issues. It puts stress on the marriage. Sit down and go over everything and make a plan. Without pointing fingers.. do it in love and work together.
- Lack of Communication- its easy to get into a daily rut, with our daily duties. Get coffee, get kids to school, work, come home.. Stop and communicate! With your spouse and your kids.
- lack of quality Time ( yes separate from s*x)- This is just as important as your intimate time with your spouse. Snuggle on the couch, hold hands while walking, read together, or even just watching tv together.

08/24/2022

When me and I are all that’s in your marriage ... you will fail.

08/17/2022

Why did God create s*x? No matter what we have been taught, s*x is not dirty, nasty or criminal. S*x was created by our father for as an intimate joining with our spouse. When you have s*x with your spouse, its not only physical, its a deep intimate bond that connects you. That is why it is so very important not to have s*x outside of marriage or before marriage. S*x creates a deep bond between the two people that links them together. You want that link with the one that you are married to, and no one else. A good s*xual relationship with your husband or wife makes your marriage stronger.

08/13/2022

Love Dare #6- Looks like its getting tougher!

08/12/2022

This may be hard for some of us...

08/09/2022

Day 4!
Dare to be thoughtful!

Be intentional with your actions. Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.

How precious also are Your thoughts to me. . . . How vast is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would outnumber the sand. Psalm 139:17–18

08/08/2022

Day 3 Love Dare!
Whatever you put your time, energy and money into will become more important to you. Its hard to care for something that you are not investing. Buy your spouse something that says" was thinking of you today. " Do nothing with selfishness or empty conceit, but with humility of mind regard for another as more important than yourselves. Phillippians 2:3

08/08/2022

I missed a few days on love dare.. Me and the hubs were out of town celebrating our anniversary of 20 years!! woo woo!! Well pick up from day 2..

08/03/2022

Day 2 Love Dare
Do an unexpected Gesture for your spouse !

08/02/2022

Y’all ever heard of “ The Love Dare”? It’s an oldie but a goodie. Let’s start tomorrow
Day 1- choose to have a long fuse instead of a short one.
Slow to Anger..

The first part of this dare is fairly
simple. Although love is communicated
in a number of ways, our words often
reflect the condition of our heart. For
the next day, resolve to demonstrate
patience and to say nothing negative
to your spouse at all. If the temptation
arises, choose not to say anything. It’s
better to hold your tongue than to say
something you’ll regret.