04/03/2026
Friday, April 3
A Reflection on Charity from Steve Tapp
Steve is a longtime member at StoneBridge. He most recently served on the Nominating Committee of StoneBridge. He is married to Lori.
1 John 3:17-18 ESV But if anyone has the world's goods and sees his brother in need, yet closes his heart against him, how does God's love abide in him? Little children, let us not love in word or talk but in action and in truth.
In 1958, driving an old car with many miles in it, headed north on a desolate stretch of highway on a blazingly hot day near Red Bluff California, my family’s summer trip suddenly stopped. The engine just quit. My brother was 5 years old and I was 3. My folks had little cash for the trip, no phones nearby, no credit cards, no city or homes in sight. A truck stopped and two Mexican-American men gestured with my dad, since a common language wasn’t spoken. Before long, my brother and I were playing in a stranger’s home with several kids who shared their toys with us. My mom sat with gracious ladies, without speaking more than a few words. Hours later, my dad drove up with the car repaired. And after heartfelt “thank you's” were said, off we went. My mother’s eyes welled with tears every time she told this story. Compounded by ever-present money worries, she had been so scared of being stranded on that desolate highway. But the main point of her recollection was their kindness, generosity, and how that entire family dropped everything for an afternoon to help us. We drove north on that highway every summer for over a decade. And every time, mom quietly teared up along that lonesome stretch of highway. Putting 1 John 3:17-18 into practice can have a lifelong effect.
As we reflect on our call for charity, let’s not only open our hearts to opportunities to extend God’s love and take action to do so, let’s also spend a few moments remembering those who have shown charity to us - whether that be something tangible like a meal, clothing, money, a place to rest, or perhaps something intangible like words of encouragement, or a hug when it was needed most.
Prayer: Lord, fill me with strength to focus and take actions beyond my own needs and to hear your voice when called to do so. I pray for courage to put my faith into action that will result in spreading comfort and love to others, whoever they are, and whatever the need. I pray you’ll bless my efforts as I walk with you, my loving Father. Amen.