12/21/2022
For some people, it can be hard to celebrate Christmas. Loss of loved ones, painful experiences, and a variety of other situations can make it difficult to feel joy. Maybe this is you.
But consider this… it’s possible you’re exactly where you need to be. Even if you’re uncomfortable. Sad. Lonely. Or hurt.
Right now I’m in a tire shop with an unexpected rip in my tire, one that left me frantically navigating some questionable streets of Memphis to get to the nearest solution.
First, I stopped at a gas station to fill up with air to get my warning light to go away. Upon inspection, that would not be happening. The evil hiss of more than a pinhole leak sent me scurrying to find a tire shop. But then I stopped again after my car began to wobble, and I decided to do damage control by putting on a spare so I could more safely get to wherever it was my maps would be directing me (Do you hear dramatic music playing in the background too?)
Surprise, I have no donut and no jack. (Music crescendos!) Never thought to check that compartment after buying this car from an auction. I guess it got stripped of its essentials before going to sale.
So…after wrestling with impatient traffic, Shelby county potholes, and Siri’s insistence that I make a U-turn to get on the interstate… I did finally get to the tire shop. Ugh.
This car. It has spent more time in the body shop than on the road. Three “incidents” since I’ve owned it and at least one other that I know of prior to my ownership. And that’s not counting the deer that was hit the other night conveniently damaging my “newest” front panel. Ugh. This car.
But is it really that the car is jinxed or more that the enemy is targeting me to steal my joy and peace? I tend to think the latter. Either way, the tire shop is not where I want to be right now. It’s not alluring. Or comfortable.
But it’s necessary.
So is God’s refining work in our lives. The book of Hebrews tells us that discipline is uncomfortable, but yet it produces the peaceful fruit of righteousness. To become more like Christ…that is the goal.
Perhaps it’s not even discipline that is occurring. (If it is, then by all means repent!) Your circumstance could simply be a test of faith…like Job. An opportunity to be a light in a dark world. A witness to all who are watching.
Circumstances are never the litmus test of whether you are in the will of God. Repeat. You can be in a horrible circumstance and totally be in the will of God. Or…you can be living “high on the hog” and totally outside the will of God.
Consider Abraham. God told him to go to the mountain that He would show him… and to sacrifice his only son Isaac. That doesn’t sound pleasant.
Although God didn’t require it of Abraham, it was a test of faith to see if Abraham would trust God to fulfill His promise of many descendants. How could that be done if Isaac were to die?
Truthfully, God could raise Isaac from the dead if He needed to. So Abraham believed this truth even though it put him in an uncomfortable situation.
Consider Joseph, son of Jacob. To fulfill a prophesy given to Abraham in Genesis 15, Joseph had to be led down to Egypt where the Israelites would be enslaved for about 400 years. The mechanism to get him there? Half brothers who hated him, a little human trafficking, slavery, and imprisonment. I doubt those were situations that made Joseph giddy.
What is interesting to me about the story of Joseph is the seemingly random man in the field that pointed Joseph to the conniving hands of his brothers, and ultimately into slavery. But it’s no coincidence, because the divinely placed man pointed Joseph exactly to where he needed to be. According to God’s plan.
“Now a certain man found him, and there he was, wandering in the field. And the man asked him, saying, “What are you seeking?”
16 ¶ So he said, “I am seeking my brothers. Please tell me where they are feeding their flocks.”
17 ¶ And the man said, “They have departed from here, for I heard them say, ‘Let us go to Dothan.’ ” So Joseph went after his brothers and found them in Dothan”
Genesis 37:15-17
My inquisitive mind asks, “Where’d that man come from?? And how does such an anonymous and seemingly coincidental encounter make it into the purposeful pages of Scripture?”
Joseph was obeying the command of his father, Jacob, to go check on his brothers, and again, the man in the field was yet another marker or turning point to get Joseph to where he needed to be. Don’t miss the fact that Joseph was in obedience and the will of God!
Abraham also had to be in obedience to land on the correct mountain… the one that God said He would show him. If Abraham had not listened and chose to disobey, could he have ended up on the wrong mountain and therefore, missed the blessing of the ram substitute?
Now, consider Mary. Yes, she received the most wonderful news one could ever imagine… the Messiah’s arrival and the chosen part that she would play (a significant one!) to bring about His entrance into this world as a man. Wow.
But yet the good news and the unquestioning faith of Mary put her in a sticky situation with her betrothed husband Joseph. It had the makings of a scandalous affair and the ruin of her reputation.
Conceived by the Holy Spirit??? Who would ever believe that? Joseph did by the grace of God and through another divine intervention… because God sent an angel to set the record straight.
Recall that Mary was called highly favored. But yet she delivered the Messiah in a stable fit for only animals. I’m picturing my goat barn. Animals p**p. And they p**p a lot! I can’t fathom a precious newborn, especially the long awaited Messiah, entering the world amongst all the goat “berries”! Trust me, there’s no fanfare in a stable. So what we define as “favored” in modern day terms is most likely not the same way that God defines it.
Friend, God’s plans are much higher than what we can comprehend. Every turning point in our life is under His divine supervision and NEVER beyond His reach.
Maybe you’re not where you want to be right now, and you’re having a hard time finding joy this Christmas. Don’t let circumstances rule the conditions of your heart. Let the Spirit of Christ reign and give you the joy and peace that only He can give.
Have the obedience of Abraham, the resilience of Joseph, and the faith of Mary as you humbly endure circumstances that feel less than ideal. God is working it out for His glory.
It is an amazing thought that through our trials we get to take part in the incredible adventure of The Story above all stories…the story of Jesus the Messiah.
You may not understand the purpose for your trial or your wait, but rest assured that God is in absolute control and nothing can separate us from His love.
May your Christmas be filled with His peace and your faith be energized so that you can be a light and point others to Jesus the Messiah.
From the slimy oil pits and rubbery aroma of the tire shop…to God be the glory!
Merry Christmas,
Andrea Gehrett