09/10/2026
Continuing with my reflections on some of the things that I believe can help us grow in holiness, I want to focus on one that has quite literally been life-changing for me: frequent the Sacrament of Confession.
I don’t know how else to describe Confession other than this: it changes my life every single time I go.
There is something incredibly powerful about walking into the confessional, naming your sins, acknowledging where you have fallen short, and hearing the words of absolution. No matter how many times I receive this sacrament, I walk out different than when I walked in.
One of my favorite examples of God’s mercy in Scripture comes from St. Peter. On the night Jesus was arrested, Peter denied Him three times. This was the man who had promised Jesus that he would never abandon Him, and yet when the moment came, he failed.
But that’s not the end of Peter’s story.
After the Resurrection, Peter finds himself with Jesus on the shore of the Sea of Galilee. Jesus asks him three times, “Do you love me?” And three times Peter professes his love for Him.
Three denials. Three professions of love.
I love this passage because I think it gives us such a beautiful image of what happens when we return to Jesus after we sin. Jesus knew exactly what Peter had done. Peter knew exactly what he had done. And yet Jesus didn’t cast him aside. He gave Peter the opportunity to return, to profess his love, and then entrusted him with a mission: “Feed my sheep.”
That’s what God’s mercy does. It doesn’t simply remind us of who we were when we fell. It restores us and calls us forward.
That’s why Confession is such an incredible gift. We don’t have to carry our sins around with us. We don’t have to wonder whether God will forgive us. We can actually go to Him, confess our sins, hear the words of absolution, and begin again.
If it has been a while since you’ve been to Confession, go this week.
Don’t overthink it. Don’t be embarrassed. Don’t convince yourself that you need to get your life together before you go.
Just go.