11/24/2021
Article by Mr. Bruno Lucarelli, Konko Review 12/2021 2021 Young Adult Seminar: "During this summer's KCNA conference, I was given the opportunity to participate in the Young Adult Seminar. During this seminar, our primary theme was "pursue the life-changing benefits of mediation". I was able to meet young Konkokyo believers from all over the world, including one man from Brazil! It was wonderful to hear a wide variety of perspectives on Konkokyo practice, and more specifically, how people my age face similar challenges with otoritsugi (mediation).
One common pattern I noticed was that the participants were hesitant to ask for mediation because they thought it was a burden on others (myself included). The senseis/mediators participating in the discussion understood our concerns, and helped us understand that thinking of mediation as a burden on the mediator is a one-sided view. They stated that a mediator chooses to walk their path because they have a strong desire to help people in this way, and that this is the primary responsibility of that role. Ideally, this means we can work towards a mutually-beneficial relationship between ourselves and our mediator, espousing the concept of aiyokakeiyo (Mutual Interdependence).
This idea has changed my practice of Konkokyo greatly. I am deeply thankful for those who participated, and have been more frequently receiving mediation from my minister. It's helpful to establish these relationships both in good times and in tough times: these are part of a continuous timeline that makes us who we are, and we can become better people throughout by asking others to help."