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10/15/2025

7 Rules of Marriage... for Men

I was married for 36 years, until my wife passed away. During those years, I learned many things about the marriage relationship. A good marriage doesn't just happen - you MUST work at it!

We men are often dense when it comes to relationships, and we don't change our habits very easily. That's why it's so important to establish new habits, early on in the marriage and even sooner, if possible.

Here are the main ones that God taught me over the years. Learn them well - and be consistent! Twenty years from today, you'll be one of those couples that not only stayed together, but you'll have a passion for each other that the world rarely sees.

1. Keep God in the equation. This is the only lasting foundation of any marriage (Psalm 127:1).

2. Never forget a holiday or special day. Those are the modern-day alters of remembrance (Proverbs 5:18).

3. Never stop dating/courting your wife! Romance doesn't end at the wedding; you're just getting started (Solomon 7:11)!

4. Never use the "D-word". Divorce shouldn't even enter your mind, as you promised her on your wedding day (Matthew 19:6 & 9).

5. Remember she's much more sensitive than you are. Harsh words hit her harder and stay longer (Proverbs 15:1; I Peter 3:7).

6. It's never too late to start over again. Life is filled with difficulties, but come together often and renew your love for each other (Colossians 3:19; Ephesians 4:32).

7. Tell her often what you love about her. If you truly love her, tell her over and over again (Proverbs 31:28; Solomon 1:15, 4:1 & 9).

NEVER, ever take your marriage for granted. It's the greatest gift of God on earth (Solomon 8:7)!

~Robert-Dale

09/19/2025

For you Single men!❣️

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06/04/2025

Wise words of TRUTH!!!!

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01/14/2025

GOOD MEN ARE NOT HARD TO FIND; THEY ARE HARD TO SEDUCE

The truth is, seduction is a form of witchcraft, not fitting for a good Christian woman.

Further, I would add to the list below: Compatibility and Kindness over Conflict and Criticism

If you know what YOU want, take time to find out what HE wants. It's a 2-way partnership...

"Good Men Are Not Hard To Find - They Are Hard To Seduce"

There is a common misconception floating around that good men are scarce and elusive creatures that have vanished into thin air. But here's the truth - good men aren't hard to find. They simply aren’t easily captivated by the surface-level charms that many focus on displaying.

A man of substance does not base his choice on passing attractions. He seeks depth, character, someone who aligns with his values and vision. If you’ve been struggling to get the attention of a genuinely good man, it might be time to change your strategy.

What doesn't work:

Tight-fitting clothes and revealing clothes: Yes, these may catch the eye of many, but a good man seeks more than what is on the surface. He seeks a deeper connection than the appearances.

Social media drama: posting exaggerated rants or super select selfies may draw likes, but it won't inspire genuine respect or interest.

Materialism over meaning: flaunting love for luxury or designer labels doesn't impress someone grounded in values.

What works:

1. Character over cleavage: A good man pays attention to how you treat others, your humility and your kindness. A compassionate heart leaves a lasting impression

2. Brains Over Beauty: Intelligence is not about degrees or vocabulary; it's about curiosity, wisdom, and the ability to hold meaningful conversations. Stimulate his mind and you'll gain his admiration.

3. Values over vanity: A man of substance admires a woman with clear values and purpose. Show him your love for growth, your commitment to your faith, or your dedication to something greater than yourself.

4. Consistency over chaos: stability without drama is a magnet for good men. They're looking for someone who can handle life's challenges with grace, not someone who constantly invites unnecessary turbulence.

5. Confidence over Conformity: Be Unapologetically You. A good man respects a woman who knows her worth and isn't afraid to be alone when necessary.

The secret to getting a good man:

A good man doesn't need you to change who you are; he needs you to be who you are - authentically, unapologetically, and with integrity.

He’s not looking for perfection, but someone who complements his own journey, someone with shared values and goals. He realizes the silent strength behind your actions, the way you talk to others and how you carry yourself through the ups and downs of life.

So, if you're striving for a meaningful connection, focus less on fleeting external traits and more on cultivating the qualities that define your inner self. Let your actions, intellect and values speak louder than your clothes or social media.

Be more strategic than pretty. Because when a good man finally notices you, he'll cherish every aspect of who you are — inside and out.

12/16/2024

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11/02/2024

What do you desire in a man? Wow!... 😮

10/16/2024

Never stop trying!...

09/14/2024

It may seem like it our Mr. Or Mrs. Right is MIA, Missing In Action, because we get impatient in waiting. GODS TIMING IS PERFECT! DON'T SETTLE!! Wait for your Mr. Or Mrs. Right!!🥰

08/16/2024

THIS SAYS IT ALL...SO TRUE.....SAME THING FOR WOMEN....FOR THE MEN ~

08/07/2024

BOY CAN I SAY AMEN TO THIS!!!