02/16/2022
Struggling with "Love Your Enemy"? Maybe this perspective will help.
Luke 6:27-38 is one of the difficult passages of scripture. Loving your enemies, do good to those who hurt you, turning the other cheek---it makes me think that Jesus didn't really understand being human at all. In my Bible the heading for all of this is "Behaving as God's children." That makes me think about what my parents taught me. My siblings and I fought at times, as children do, but I don't remember Mom and Dad telling me to turn the other cheek. I do remember, "No fighting!" and being told more than once to be nice to my little brother because "someday he will be bigger than you," a prediction that came true and now I am grateful I was mostly nice to him! But turning the other cheek when fights occasionally became physical--no way!
Outside of the family, though, this becomes more difficult. I remember the context, then, with this passage being part of the Sermon on the Plain, right after the Beatitudes and the Woes. Since the playing field will be leveled when those who weep and mourn will be comforted and rejoice and those who laugh and are comfortable will weep and be in need, does this help us to love our enemies? Knowing that those who are laughing and partying while others suffer will soon be the ones needing help, does that make it more possible to see them as human and "just like us"? Maybe.
I think many of our problems today come from us/them thinking. "They" are not like "us." "They" are the enemy that has everything we want or they hurt us or exploit or abuse us. And all that can be true and still not mean that they are less human, that they are monsters, that God hates them.
And if God doesn't hate them, does God love them? I actually want to believe that God does. Because I am not perfect and I am sometimes less than generous, less compassionate and responsive to the needs of others than I could be, and God still loves me.
And if God loves even a person who can mess up like I do, maybe God can love anybody. Even people that I label "them." Even people I find it very, very difficult to love.
And because I am a child of God, I will find a way to love "those people" too.