04/10/2020
“He Will Lift Us Up”
The year 2020 is only one quarter done, but it will go down in history as one of modern man’s most chaotic and challenging. The Big Three concerns are, of course (especially for the USA),
1) the global COVID-19 pandemic and the terrible cost in lives;
2) the unfathomable economic impact of the global shutdown (there’s likely a high cost in lives here, too), and
3) the political challenges of a Presidential election year.
And these challenging issues are not just impacting “other people”—they can be very personal. That’s why I would bet that most Christians are thinking—and many are asking—the big question: “What does God want from us and for us?” The answer is immensely important in our lives, yet one thing we know with certainty: we are assured in God’s sovereignty.
How we view God—and the nature of our relationship with Him—is fundamental for living above the chaos of these challenging times. For the Christian, I think there are two things we should prioritize: first, keep our hearts and minds fixed on Christ no matter what we go through. Second, a renewed and fervent prayer life is central to overcoming anything we encounter.
This month we begin to explore the importance that submission, sacrifice, and servanthood play in overcoming our difficulties and the trials of life. It was Jesus who taught us, “So the last will be first, and the first will be last.” [Matt. 20:16] That’s one of the reasons I believe that sacrificing ourselves as servants will result in the blessings of God, for humility overtakes pride in God’s Kingdom all the time. The submitted servant who sacrifices his life for God and others will likely experience the grace he needs to overcome the pressures of life. The following story exemplifies the struggle we all face as we learn what it means to be a servant—exemplifying the life of Christ, i.e., a life of humility.
SERVANTHOOD
As the young man sat in my office telling me that the problems in his marriage were not his fault, and that he didn’t know what to do to fix things, I asked him this simple question: “Do you really love your wife and children?” Looking me straight in the eyes he answered, “Of course I do. I love them more than anything or anyone on earth. Now that’s a strange question to ask.”
Pushing him some I asked, “When you say you love them, what do you mean?”
“I mean I love them so much that I would die for them.”
“Wow, it sounds like you love them as much as one person can love another.”
Then I said, “But would you mind if I take things a little deeper? You say you love them so much that you would die for them, but do you love them enough that you would live for them?”
The young man paused and looked puzzled, so I said, “This is what I mean: would you give up your desires, wants, needs, and even your “rights”, in order to serve them, your family? Would you put your family’s needs and desires before your own? And start showing them real, selfless love—no matter what it costs you? This would show that you are serious about putting them before yourself in life, which is what it means to say you love them, even to your death.”
There was dead silence for a moment as the gravity of what I was saying broke through. In his face I could see the struggle as God’s Spirit battled against his flesh.
Then, in a low and humbled voice he said, “Wow, you are right. My love has been selectively selfish. I mean, I’m very selective about when I will meet her needs, while all the time acting like I’m really godly, but actually I’m only serving myself. But if I’m getting what you, and especially God, want from me, I would be selflessly giving her and the kids the kind of love that Jesus did. I can now see that being a real servant to them is something I’ve talked about but never really taken seriously. I have always done just what I wanted, but now I can see that I’ve been nothing but selfish and bull-headed!”
Like so many Christians all over the world, including us, this brother’s life reflects a lack of what Scripture describes as having a servant’s heart unto death of self. Looking at his life is like looking in a mirror only to see our own selfishness. As Disciples we are to be like our Savior, who, being God, did not consider being God a reason not to come DOWN to earth and save us. [cf. Philippians 2:6–11] So He gave up everything—His attributes, privileges, and well-deserved rights (He being the only person in history to actually deserve any and all rights—unlike us, for we deserve NONE)—so He could be a servant. And His life of servanthood ended in execution—a path we are unlikely to ever go down.
What Jesus did by giving His all was more important than we might understand at first glance. Because by laying down His RIGHTS—an attitude and action that is completely counter to our modern world where our personal wants, needs and “rights” are not just taken for granted, they have actually become idols of a sort despite us not really deserving rights at all—He left us an example that no one else could ever have given. He showed us that the best kept secret in this world, and sadly, maybe most of all in the Church, was that we were created to serve, no matter what the case may be.
From the time of creation Adam was to serve Eve and she was to serve Adam. And they were both created to humble themselves and serve their loving Creator, even unto death its self. You see, the fact of the matter is we were created and called to serve God and each other as our Savior did for us. And to this we are called no matter what we “feel” is our personal right.
When it came to holding on to the rights that were so perfectly and rightly His, He humbled Himself and gave us the glorious gift of His Spirit—the Spirit who would give us the grace and will to fulfill all that He called us to. He gave us His Holy Spirit to attain the unattainable, so that, like Him, we, too, could be servants.
Next month we will explore some other aspects of this topic. Paul’s words speak the mind of Christ on these subjects, “For if, by the trespass of the one man [Adam], death reigned through that one man, how much more will those who receive God’s abundant provision of grace and of the gift of righteousness [through the cross of Christ] reign in life through the one man, Jesus Christ!” [Rom. 5:17]
This word of encouragement should give us all hope to live by grace. And may his words keep your heart fixed, through the grace of God, all month long.