01/28/2019
This is a Good Word
God Bless💒
WHY MEN ARE CALLED A "GROOM”, AND THE WOMAN “THE BRIDE” ON Their WEDDING DAY?
Why is the Newly Wedded Man called a Groom and The Woman called "The Bride 👰🏽...A friend of mine got tired of his Wife just about six months after Their Wedding. He complained Bitterly to Me about her and told Me that he had Concluded to Break Up with her; He went on to say that he was sure that he made a Mistake. I did NOT Respond immediately because I knew I must tell him the Right Thing, So I went home, and that is what Birth this Message.
Many Men have Broken Up with Their Wives because They Ended Up NOT being The Wife of Their Dreams. But what They have Forgotten on Their Wedding Day was the Man was Commissioned for The New Task. Nobody calls the Woman The Wife on her Wedding Day but Bride 👰🏽, because it is the Man that will "Groom" his Bride 👰🏽 to Become The Wife.
That is why The Man is called The "Bridegroom" or "Groom" and The Word 'Grooming' has to do with Patiently Nurturing, Teaching, Tending and Helping Someone to Become what he or she should Become. It is therefore believed that a Man that takes a Woman to the Altar of Marriage is Matured Enough to Patiently 'Groom' his Bride 👰🏽 to Become The Wife.
The Man is NOT supposed to just Expect The Bride 👰🏽 to automatically Become The Wife, she must be 'Groomed'. It is Clear that Many of Us Men have Unnecessary Expectations when We are getting Married, We Want some Supernatural Miracle to Happen to Our Wives, We Want Them to Become what We had in Mind about who We Want Our Wives to Become; NOT considering the Fact that the Woman Does NOT know what is on your Mind Unless You Teach her.
Our Expectations are often Too Unrealistic, because We don’t Remember that Change takes Time and We can Only Expect something from Someone that knows what We Want. So before you Think of Breaking Up have You 'Groomed' her? Have You given her Time to understand You? I Hope You realize that a Turtle 🐢 will NEVER Become a Hawk?
God often brings People that are Opposites of each Other Together in Marriage so that They can Help each Other in their Place of Weaknesses. If your Wife is Weak where You are Weak, then where will You get The Strength that is Needed? The Problem with Many of Us is that We Don’t Accept People before Attempting to Change Them.
Of course, Our Wives are NOT from Our Backgrounds, So it will take Time for Them to Adjust. Stop trying to Change her, Accept her, Love 💞 her, Teach her, and be Patient with her; that is what 'Grooming' is all about. She is going to be your Wife but Now she is your Bride 👰🏽, So 'Groom' her.
Stop Complaining about her, she may be a Turtle 🐢 and You a Hawk, she cannot Fly so be Patient with her.
I Don’t believe that your Marriage can’t Work, be Patient and allow God to Help You.
I PRAY 🙏🏿Almighty God Helps us in Our Marriages and Connect Those yet to be Married to a Loving and Caring Spouse, Amen...Proverbs 18:22
Rev. Zacharias E. Allen, Sr.
