05/26/2026
On Memorial Day
A Prayer in Thanksgiving for Heroic Service
O Judge of the nations, we remember before you with grateful hearts the men and women of our country who in the day of decision ventured much for the liberties we now enjoy. Grant that we may not rest until all the people of this land share the benefits of true freedom and gladly accept its disciplines. This we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ our Lord. Amen.
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While Memorial Day is not a holy day on the Church's calendar, it has been observed in a wide variety of ways in parishes and by individuals in the Episcopal Church since its gradual adoption following the U.S. Civil War. The need for prayer, solace, and recollection of selfless sacrifice is an important part of a democracy's reckoning with warfare.
One of the distinctive characteristics of our observance is an absence of glorifying war in any way. Rather than attempt to dignify what is the most brutal of human actions, we remember those who have died in the service of our country when that struggle is "for the liberties we now enjoy." Warfare, as such, is not what we praise. We praise the sacrifice made for just wars intended to preserve our liberties. Only this, we believe, may justify war in the eyes of the supreme "Judge of the nations."
This shows the centrality of the nation as a whole being involved in deciding to enter into war, and for what must be considered just and sufficient reasons. When warfare is the result of one man's whim (as in traditional forms of monarchy or in modern authoritarianism), it loses both its firm basis of support and the ability for the governed to assert controls over its mission and its means. It loses any pretext of being righteous.
In our own day, we struggle with what the Prayer in Thanksgiving for Heroic Service terms “freedom's disciplines." Split by an unending culture war, we have assigned our duties to hold leadership to the strict standards of what is just and beneficial not to elected officials but ideologies and interests unresponsive to our stated ideals. The consequence is division which cannot be healed, resentment which cannot be overcome, waste which cannot be recovered, and manipulation which cannot be overthrown.
Substituting juvenile notions of "maximum lethality" for professional soldiering and just ideas of warfare leads only to be******ty, horror, and decline. As we honor the war dead this day, let us require better from those who prosecute war in our name, and let us require better from ourselves as we look beyond the paralyzing divisions which lead to the dishonoring of those who made the supreme sacrifice--sullying their memory in folly and criminality through the misuse of the terrifying power of war.