06/03/2026
You Don't Have To Flatten Yourself To Be Holy
There's a quiet pressure in church culture that says if we just smooth ourselves out enough, polish ourselves enough, maybe then we'll finally look the way God wants us to.
But open Scripture and the people God calls rarely fit into tidy categories. Moses stutters and argues. David fails badly. Peter is passionate and impulsive. Paul is brilliant and difficult in the same breath.
Even Jesus refuses to fit one mold. Philippians 2 says, "Though He was in the form of God, He did not regard equality with God as something to be exploited, but emptied Himself, taking the form of a servant."
The Greek word there is kenosis, a self-emptying. God chose not domination but solidarity, not distance but closeness, not power over humanity but presence with humanity. And then Christ became "obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross."
But Paul doesn't stop at the cross. He keeps going: "Therefore God highly exalted Him and gave Him the name that is above every name." Jesus is both humbled and exalted. Not one or the other. Both.
And so many of us have been taught to flatten ourselves into one acceptable thing. Be humble, but not too confident. Be joyful, but not too loud. Be wounded, but healed quickly enough that no one feels uncomfortable around us.
Meanwhile Jesus is washing feet one moment and flipping tables the next, tender with children and fierce with oppressive systems, fully divine and wholly human. Maybe holiness was never about eliminating our complexity in the first place.
Christ didn't avoid our complexity. He stepped directly into it. So we can stop punishing ourselves for being multifaceted. Christ meets the real us, not the cleaned up version, not the spiritually optimized version. The real us. And that is good news.
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