01/23/2023
Have you ever wondered where the term “carrying dead weight” came from? It began in the days of the Roman Empire. The Romans were notorious for the ways they found to torture a human being. Crucifixion was one of their inventions. When a criminal was hated and condemned by the Roman courts, the worst punishment they sentenced was to bind a co**se to the condemned person’s bare back. It was the slowest and most painful of deaths they could contrive for the convicted as each day that one would bend lower and lower from the stench and poison of deterioration until death was imminent. Hence, came the phrase “carrying dead weight.”
Did you know this is analogous to what we are doing when we carry unforgiveness, bitterness, resentment and anger in our hearts? We are carrying dead weight. It affects us in the same way until we can no longer live our lives free and unhindered. We bend to its poison and our hearts harden and isolate. Even worse is everyone around us sees and smells it too. It defiles everything about us, our lives and our relationships.
Is there something “strapped” to your back? The answer is to forgive and release who hurt you and what they did into Jesus’ hands.
What if you don’t feel like forgiving? Don’t worry because forgiveness is not a feeling. It is a decision of our free-will. We choose to forgive just as we choose not to forgive, and we make our choice known by saying “I forgive…and I release..."
Why is it important to not only make the decision to forgive, but to release the person(s) and hurt(s) to Jesus too? If we don’t release all to Him, then we will take it on our back again. Rest assured, whatever pain we give to Jesus, He won’t give it back to us. It is put to death at the Cross. He only gives us that which is resurrected life and is eternal.
God is the only One qualified to take care of our wounds, and we don’t have the right to hold people hostage in our hearts. This is key to a successful and abundant life. When we forgive and release it, it allows God to give us restitution for our pain.
"And be kind to one another, tender hearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." (Eph. 4:32)
If you are struggling with unforgiveness, contact Hope In Life Ministry at 1-844-669-4673 ext. 0 or [email protected]. We can help.
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