09/06/2026
In Psalm 98, it points us to the joy that flows through all of God’s creation. The psalmist imagines that the seas and the hills join us humans in rejoicing in God’s steadfast love. We have every reason to be joyful, for God’s faithfulness and goodness never fade.
Well, we are now into a few weeks into school. I am sure we all had fun during the summer. We had family vacations, camps, playing sports and games, staying up late and probably lots of other things. Then it is school time and early to bed and giving up some of the things we did in the summer but as we go into the new school year and into fall and we find that new things are replacing some of the old things that we had enjoyed in the summer. Life seems to be more structed and a whole new schedule of interesting activities we seem to have. Life has a rhythm. We feel that rhythm at this time of year when we all think about fall and back to Sunday School and church. We humans are the only creatures who are born with virtually no instincts. We have to learn everything. We spend all of our lives in both formal and informal education. We are molded by our family, school, and church all working together. This process never ends. The rhythm of your life may be different from mine, or you may experience that rhythm differently. One of the things that really gets us through the ups and downs of life is enjoyment – a capacity to have fun. When we can find enjoyment in our jobs and in our educations and in even mundane tasks, everything just naturally flows better. We are much happier and healthier than we would otherwise be, and we help others to be happier as well. Psychiatrist William Glasser says that we humans have five basic needs, and one of these is having fun (the others are survival, love and belonging, power and freedom). The ability to have fun is essential to good health. Without it our lives are not satisfying or productive, and they go off track. Life is to be enjoyed the high point of Jesus’ great prayer in John 17 is that his followers “may have my joy made complete in themselves.” Little enjoyments are the building blocks by which we arrive at Life’s great joys. We learn such joys in the family, at school, and in the church by the way we nurture one another. Something as simple as looking around at God’s creation or watching little children play and laugh. Can you remember those times when you were smaller and maybe you caught lighting bugs, maybe you swing way up in the air, and had family vacations are a part of growing up. I can remember when cousins would come we play in the haymow We had such fun. We found eggs in a nest so we decided that we formed two teams and would run and through at each other. We had a blast. Well, it didn’t end the best. We were using rotten eggs and my cousin’s mother was not happy. Somehow the joy was taken out of our having fun. She hung their shirts out the window on the way home but needless to say we sure had fun. –
Now As we now look at Matthew 18, There was a church where the pastor and the minister of music were not getting along. As time went by, this began to spill over into the worship service. The first week the pastor preached on commitment and how we all should dedicate ourselves to the service of God. The music director led the song, "I Shall Not Be Moved." The second week the pastor preached on tithing and how we all should gladly give to the work of the Lord. The director led the song, "Jesus Paid it All." The third week the pastor preached on gossiping and how we should all watch our tongues. The music directorledthesong,"ILovetoTelltheStory."
With all this going on, the pastor became very disgusted over the situation and the following Sunday told the congregation that he was considering resigning. The musician led the song, "Oh Why Not Tonight?" As it came to pass, the pastor did indeed resign. The next week he informed the church that it was Jesus who led him there and it was Jesus who was taking him away. The music leader led the song, "What a Friend We Have in Jesus.
Chapter 18 in Matthew is a chapter for Christian Ethics, it deals with those qualities which should characterize the person relationships of the Christian. In the first part of Matthew 18 it is about the quality of humility. Then going on in the chapter it talks about the quality of responsibility. We all realize that we are responsible for our own choices in life, our deeds, our words, and how we set an example. For each of us every individual should be important. We are all children of God. The passage from Matthew 18:15-20 was intended to give the early church guidance about how to deal with conflict and broken relationships.
The first step toward reconciliation involves listening. Jesus instructs his disciples on how to handle the painful time when the community of faith falls short of the unity, peace, and love to which we have been called. Jesus instructs us to focus on reconciliation and restoration. We are to treat our brothers and sisters with the same mercy and compassion and with the same spirit of grace and forgiveness as God did. Jesus’ entire ministry revolved around bringing outsiders into the kingdom by reconciling them to God. Mathew’s congregation is now having some conflicts and Matthew does not like this at all - he wants everything to be perfect. In this passage, Jesus lays out a step-by-step plan for how one Christian should handle a disagreement with another member of the community. He provides instruction on how to be a community of believers. He teaches humility. In this reading, he is giving what almost appears to be legal advice to the church that will follow in his name. His prescription is to talk about things openly, honestly and directly, person-to-person. Paul’s call to the Romans to “love one another.” For, Paul says, “the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. The commandments, ‘You shall not commit adultery; You shall not murder; You shall not steal; You shall not covet’; and any other commandment, are summed up in this word, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ Love does no wrong to a neighbor; therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law.”
This kind of love is about care for the other person’s well being. Wanting what is best for the other person, even when he or she has made you angry. If we have that sort of love for each other, we will always want to be reconciled and will always accept each other’s apologies – because that’s what people who love each other do. That’s what Christ did – and does – with us every day. Let me ask you What makes a Christian? Jesus says it is how we go about addressing and resolving these issues. Paul’s call to the Romans to “love one another.”
But far more importantly Jesus promises us that he is present, that his presence is real for us, when we are gathered in his name -- both in agreement, and in sin. Community is a place where you're accepted for who you are, where you're never lonely, and where, everyone knows your name. But the really difficult thing about community is that it's made up of people! And people, can be difficult, challenging, selfish, and unreliable. Jesus promises, when you gather with honesty and integrity, you are a kind of a community that he likes. So what kind of community do we want? Do we want a place that can both encourage us and hold us accountable? Are we looking for a place we can be honest about our hopes and fears, dreams and anxieties? Are we looking for a place we can really make a difference? Amazing things can happen because Jesus is with you, right there, in your very midst, forming and being formed by your communal sharing. Ultimately, the only rule that appears fool-proof here is the final promise. If we gather as the church, Jesus is with us. If Jesus is with us, on our side, do we not then need to approach the other side as he did? "Father, forgive them," he spoke, even when his offenders did not repent. We may seek scriptural strategies for dealing with our adversaries. But finally, it comes down to this: we are the church, and Christ is with us. A community that regularly prays the familiar petition on forgiving in the Lord’s prayer will link its own experience of forgiveness to the way in which it forgives those who sin. The Gospel of Matthew, you realize that the heart of the church is to help each other to deal with our sinfulness. The church, the friends at church becomes a family and we as a church family are to help each other with our imperfections, our unhealthy patterns, and the way we sin against each other and ourselves. The church is to become a family that helps each other with one’s flaws.
For where two or three are gathered together in my name (presence), there am I in the midst of them. We know that God’s presence is with us when we gather together, knowing that God has promised to be with us. We remember that at his birth, Jesus was given the name, “Immanuel,” which means, “God is with us.” We know the many experiences of life when Christ has been with us, especially when we feel the comfort and strength of other people around us. There is power in praying with a small group of two or three people, especially when we are praying for God to help us. May we by our words and actions, be bearers of our kingdom, in the name and Spirit of Christ. Amen