Syndéo Connecting our Northwoods church communities with vulnerable children and the families that support them.

05/01/2022

May is Foster Care Awareness Month. Here’s 10 things to be aware of...

1) It's important to be aware of the data. 400,000+ children in foster care. 100,000+ children waiting for their forever families. And this pandemic isn't helping anything.

2) It's important to be aware that we are not merely talking about numbers and data and stats - but instead real kids, real moms and dads, real humans just like you and me.

3) It's important to be aware of the fact that data rarely changes hearts and that we are predisposed to find reasons why the data is not our problem.

4) It's important to be aware of the truths we celebrate in the gospel - that God saw our plight and went to extravagant lengths to move towards it, walk with us in it and give us hope out of it.

5) It's important to be aware of the fact that we live in a world which says pursue comfort and convenience at all costs - even at the expense of the most vulnerable around you...and the gospel says something literally quite the opposite.

6) It's important to be aware of the truth that we cannot raise our hands in worship of a God that steps towards us in our hard and broken and then use those same hands to push the hard and broken of others away.

7) It's important to be aware of the reality that while we may celebrate the same gospel we all don't demonstrate that gospel in the same ways - we're not all called to do the same thing, but we are all capable of doing something.

8) It's important to be aware of your tendencies to minimize your capacity to make a difference in someone else's life - and to, out of fear, sometimes use that self-deprecation as a smokescreen to avoid what you know you are actually capable of (and perhaps called) to do.

9) It's important to be aware of God's capacity to do what only God can do, and the freedom you have to not expect yourself to be anything for these kids or families that only Jesus intended Himself to be - so don't let the fear of not having what it takes deter you; let the hope that He does drive you.

10) It's important to be aware of all the things you are not aware of - the myriad of unseen things God will do through you that you might not ever see in full on this side of eternity.

May is Foster Care Awareness Month, and perhaps for you the thing you need to be most aware of is the capacity of God to use you in ways you never thought possible - if you would simply be willing to say "yes".

www.reframingfostercare.com

01/21/2022

We now have an amazon wish list! ✨ Use the links in the comments for easy shopping, including the option to ship directly to us. ✨ Thank you for your continued support! ✨

3/19/22 update: We split our wishlist into 4 separate lists organized by age. The links for all the lists are now in the comments.

01/17/2022

Learn about becoming a foster parent in Wisconsin.

Vilas County Diaper Bag Drive! Items can be dropped off at the Vilas County Courthouse in Eagle River.
01/16/2022

Vilas County Diaper Bag Drive! Items can be dropped off at the Vilas County Courthouse in Eagle River.

01/05/2022

BIG NEWS!!! The RBA hasn’t disappeared. We are doing a pop-up food event at The Daily Grind in Eagle River, WI on January 22nd from 5 until 9 pm. There will be Burgers, Banh Mis, Mocktails, Coffee, & Lotus Energy!

10% of our sales will be donated to Vilas County Foster Closet. Vilas County Foster Closet supports the foster kids and parents of Vilas County by providing clothes, hygiene products, and comfort items at no cost. Extra donations are encouraged. We will be sharing info about this wonderful organization until the event. Please help a kid feel more at home with all the supplies they need! Stay tuned!

12/06/2021

Happy Monday! While you're out and about doing your holiday shopping, please consider adding a few of these items to your list. These are the items that we are currently hoping to stock up in our foster closet (for Oneida County). Thank you!! :)

· Boys Newborn Clothes

· Boys 4T

· Boys Jr. High (Small)

· Girls Size 9 clothing

· Boys and Girls Underwear all sizes

· Boots

· Girls Jr. High size shoes

· Bottles

· Pacifiers

Happy Thanksgiving! If you're going to be out and about doing some Black Friday shopping, keep your eye open for deals o...
11/25/2021

Happy Thanksgiving! If you're going to be out and about doing some Black Friday shopping, keep your eye open for deals on kids pajamas, as they are our most needed item at the moment. OR if Cyber Monday is more your style, feel free to have donations shipped directly to us at:
Vilas County Social Services
Attn: Foster Closet
330 Court Street, Eagle River, WI 54521

Thank you for your support! We are blessed to be a part of such a wonderful community. 💚

10/05/2021

Our next foster care support group will be October 18th, please RSVP if you plan on attending. Call/text 715-437-0861 or email [email protected]… we will need number of adults and children so we can provide dinner for everyone. Reminder: childcare for all ages is at Pine Grove church, adults meet at Grace Foursquare church. Please feel free to contact us with any questions. Hope to see you there! 🙂

09/20/2021

My advice for soon-to-be, maybe-one-day, or brand-new-and-waiting foster parents:

- Prioritize your relationship with God. Dig down deep your trust in His goodness & sovereignty. Build your faith by planting His promises deep in your heart.

- Build patterns of intentional self care. Practice rhythms that promote physical & mental & spiritual health. Understand the why & the how behind taking care of yourself & start practicing it now. Rest.

- Gather your support system. Envision your people for what you’re doing & why, then encourage them to join you in it. Flat out ask people to be your go-to, your babysitter, your shoulder to cry on, your prayer partner.

- Build your heart for biological family. Get to know & learn about those who struggle with mental illness, addiction, poverty. Learn about generational trauma. Build compassion for those who haven’t experienced the same privileges you have. Listen to adoptees & former foster youth. Study God’s heart for the family & let it inform your own heart for family preservation & reunification.

- Become trauma informed. Learn about how abuse, neglect, & in utero trauma shape the brains & bodies & beliefs of the kids you’ll be caring for. Learn strategies for empowering & connecting with & helping your future kids. Learn about attachment & consider your own attachment style.

- Pray. Pray for the kids you’ll say yes to & the kids you’ll say no to. Pray for the kids who will stay & the kids who will leave. Pray for the parents & families of the kids you’ll love. Pray for your family, your marriage, your kids. Pray for yourself.

While you’re waiting to open your home or welcome a child into your home, I encourage you to use this time. Use it actively & intentionally, as a time to build your heart & your knowledge & your tool box. Use it to prepare yourself for the kids you’re about to welcome and the families you’re about to serve.

This journey of foster parenting is beautiful & sweet & heartbreaking & hard. Welcome. 🤍


Follow our adventures in family & foster care: instagram.com/fosterthefamilyblog

09/13/2021

Reminder! Please RSVP if you’re planning on joining us! Thank you 😊

08/30/2021

ANNOUNCEMENT: Beginning in the month of September, we will be hosting a Foster Parent Support Group! We will be meeting once a month on the 3rd Monday of the month, beginning September 20th at Grace Foursquare Church (in the lower level) from 6-7:30. Dinner will be provided, so we do ask that you RSVP so we can make sure that have enough for everyone. (Bonus perk: Time at this support group will count towards ongoing training hours!)

Free childcare is being provided by/at Pine Grove Community Church! They will be available from 5:45-7:45 and will provide dinner and activities for kids of any age.

Please RSVP to (715)437-0861 or to [email protected] so we know how many parents/kiddos will be attending.

This event is open to all foster families, as well as guardianship/kinship placement families.

We look forward to seeing you there! 🙂

For any foster or adoptive families that are interested, we are hosting the simulcast of the Hope for the Journey confer...
05/08/2021

For any foster or adoptive families that are interested, we are hosting the simulcast of the Hope for the Journey conference (formerly called the Empowered to Connect conference) next Saturday, May 15. We will meet in the lower level at Grace Foursquare Church and start the simulcast at 9 and ending around 4 (depending on how fast we get through the materials). Please let us know if you’d like to attend, we’d love to have you there! 🙂

REGISTER NOW REGISTER NOW 2021 Hope for the Journey Conference & Simulcast The adoption journey does not end on the day a child is welcomed home; in fact, the journey is just beginning. Children impacted by adoption and/or foster care have often experienced early attachment injuries related to lo....

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