08/18/2026
Call it sin. Call it wrongdoing. Call it failings, or transgressions, or brokenness, or "the human condition." It goes by many names. It's the desolate knowledge that things are not right because we have acted wrongly. Sin divides and shatters. It separates us from God, from those we love, and from ourselves.
This knowledge burdens us. We can't undo what we've done, but we long for relief -- a new start, an end to guilt, freedom to act rightly, a path out of the wilderness. We want forgiveness. We want to be restored.
That's what God offers us in confession. The salvation that Jesus accomplished for the human race is something we can experience personally. Forgiveness is ours through confession. It's the road back to God. It's a channel of grace to live with new joy and freedom.
A few decades ago, the Catholic Church began referring to confession as "the sacrament of penance and reconciliation." It did this to emphasize reconciliation. That's the short answer to the question, "Why go back to confession?" We do it to be reconciled. Reconciliation literally means "to meet again." We've lost our way. Confession is the way back home.
Many people stay away from the sacrament of reconciliation because they are afraid of God. He's perceived as a judge or a policeman -- angry, suspicious, unforgiving. The truth of the matter is that God isn't like that at all. He is a loving Father who desperately wants us to return to him. In parable after parable, healing after healing, Jesus' message refutes the notion that his Father is a vindictive scorekeeper. God wants us back. He'll go to great lengths to find us.