02/19/2025
Epiphany is a time for Christians when God is revealed to us in the life of Jesus our Lord. In Jesus’ sermon on the plain as told by St. Luke in chapter six, verses 17-49, Jesus uses first the Law to lead us to the Gospel (Good News), in the blessings and woes. Jesus then challenges us in a series of commands that are hard for us to live into. “But I say to you that listen, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, 28 bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. 29 If anyone strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also; and from anyone who takes away your coat do not withhold even your shirt. 30 Give to everyone who begs from you; and if anyone takes away your goods, do not ask for them again. 31 Do to others as you would have them do to you.”
Yet just like the blessings and woes, Jesus is using commands to look at the promise He offers when we live into what He as declared as a way of living as a child of the Living God. That is Jesus’s message to us in no uncertain terms. And we can’t just cut and paste the things that Jesus said that we like, or that we find easy to do. We also have to tackle the harder things, too. We have to wrestle with what it means to love our enemies, and do good to those who hate us, and bless those who curse us, and pray for those who mistreat us. An example for us is in the life of Archbishop Desmond Tutu.
When I think of this passage, I think of people who have shown us what this looks like in extreme circumstances. People who have endured real hatred and abuse, and who still have managed to love. And one in particular that I want to talk about is Archbishop Desmond Tutu. He died back in December of 2021, but his legacy certainly lives on, because he was a Christian who taught us and showed us how to love even our enemies.
Bishop Tutu served as a leader in South Africa during the struggle to dismantle apartheid. And he certainly earned a lot of enemies along the way. And what makes him such a great example of what today’s gospel reading looks like is how he treated those enemies. Bishop Tutu never became bitter or hateful. He never deviated from what the Bible taught him, to love and forgive one’s enemies. He managed to go through his entire life with this focus.
He was asked his secret to doing this. How was he able to live by these challenging teachings of Jesus? Bishop Tutu’s answer was both complicated and simple. The simple answer is found in an answer he gave in an interview, when he said this: “I hold on, and often only by the skin of my teeth, to believe that God is in charge of his world, in spite of all appearances to the contrary.” (Bishop Tutu’s Hopes and Fears
The more complicated answer is found in several of his books, including his memoir, “No Future without Forgiveness.” In this book, he talks about forgiveness as a process that is not simple, and not quick. As he puts it so eloquently: “Forgiving and being reconciled to our enemies or our loved ones are not about pretending that things are other than they are. It is not about patting one another on the back and turning a blind eye to the wrong. True reconciliation exposes the awfulness, the abuse, the hurt, the truth. It could even sometimes make things worse. It is a risky undertaking but in the end it is worthwhile, because in the end only an honest confrontation with reality can bring real healing. Superficial reconciliation can bring only superficial healing.”
“Forgiving,” Bishop Tutu went on to say, “is not forgetting; it’s actually remembering – remembering and not using your right to hit back. It’s a second chance for a new beginning.” And this kind of forgiveness is only possible when we truly believe that God is in charge of this world. When we don’t really believe that, we can try to take matters into our own hands. That is when we lose the ability to love and to forgive and to bless and pray for those we might consider our enemies.
In Jesus our Lord and Savior we have a perfect guide to how we should live into His words of promise. Jesus chose to love His enemies, even when they mocked Him and spat upon him. He was determined to do good to those who hated him, even when they cried out for his crucifixion. He opted to bless them when they cursed Him, and He prayed for them when they abused Him. Even when hanging from the cross, He forgave those who put Him there: “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing” (Luke 23:34).
Jesus did exactly that for us all. Jesus didn’t come to judge us, or to condemn the world, but to save this world, and to love us. And in the same way, Jesus sends us out into the world not to condemn it or to judge it, but to bless it and to love it. And to do all this trusting in the One who is truly in charge, even when the evidence might suggest otherwise. “God’s dream,” Bishop Tutu once said, “is that you and I, and all of us, will realize that we are family, that we are made for togetherness, for goodness, and for compassion.”
The world will know we are followers of Jesus by our love for one another. But the world will become convinced of this love when we love even our enemies, just as Jesus taught us to do. Yes, Jesus gave us what sounds like commands or the law, but Jesus went on to say this is a promise, this the Good News. We are loved more than we can ever know. What we do with this gracious, merciful love, is up to us. Jesus calls us to a higher standard, not only to love one another, those we choose but to love the unlovable in our lives. Then let us love God, and love ourselves, and love one another. And let us also love those who will not love us back, until all the world knows the love that we are blessed to have in Jesus. To the glory of God. Amen.