09/05/2026
Pastoral Ponderings-Connections
by Pastor Jim Lewis
In a place called “Connections,” at a park shaped explicitly to highlight connections between people around the globe with the recognitions that “we’ll find we’re more alike than different,” there’s a little corner of a café that looks more like a museum than an amusement park. It unfortunately doesn’t have the labels of museums, but is a collection of coffee and tea services from across cultures and times, highlighting how sharing coffee or tea together builds connections.
I experienced this myself in a profound way in the fall of 2005, in a world of conflict, both with war and conflicting world views, when I was deployed to Afghanistan. I was at the theater command post in Kabul, which always had construction projects hiring locals as well as labor from across the region. I passed by a group of workers, I think they were Afghans—they couldn’t speak a word of English, nor could I understand a word of their language. They were on a break, they saw me notice them, and motioned me over with a smile and a wave of a tea pot.
Part of my pre-deployment training included the importance of building bridges of connection between peoples, and here was one of my chances. The fellow continued with the smile, indicated the team sharing tea together, and offered me some. Without any common words, but the common language of smiles, tea, and signs of hospitality from the group, we built connections with tea despite challenges of trust and conflict. And that was that—yet it was not.
I have no idea how that brief interaction over tea impacted them. But it is one of the most powerful and memorable experiences of my three deployments, and my whole Army career. It highlighted to me of the importance, the power, and the simplicity of building connections across what might seem to be insurmountable divides—with a simple cup of tea, reflected in that display at the amusement park. Amusing—and so much more!
Central to Jesus’ time on Earth was building such connections across similar cosmic divides, both- and intertwinedly if I can coin a term, on the human and spiritual levels. And not only was that central Jesus did, it is central to what Jesus showed as the central calling of our lives. And it’s as simple as a cup of tea and a smile- whether across warring cultures, or between neighbors who have not yet met. Care for a cup of tea?—Pastor Jim