05/31/2026
https://youtu.be/ev022L_nSMk
What does it really look like to live humbly with the people around you — especially when they drive you a little crazy?
Pastor Dave Seratt's sermon begins at 19:36 min into the video. The music “To God Be The Glory", " Softly and Tenderly", " In the Garden", “I Saw The Light”, “Victory In Jesus”, “I'll Fly away”, and “Lord, I Want to Be a Christian” are licensed under CCLI Copyright #2723035 and Streaming Media #22024223 licenses.
Pastor Dave opened this fifth-Sunday Gospel message from Ephesians 4:2, Colossians 3, and 1 Peter 5, weaving together a theme that is simple to state but genuinely hard to live: if we are ever going to practice all the "one anothers" of Scripture, we have to deal with our pride first. This message is the fourth in an ongoing series on the one-anothers of the New Testament — roughly fifty commands that shape how believers relate to each other — and it zeroes in on humility and patience as the twin foundations everything else is built on.
1. Pride: The Root We Don't Like to See - Pastor Dave spent the first part of the message doing something most of us resist — holding a mirror up to pride. He walked through the biblical vocabulary: vainglory, puffed up, arrogant, self-satisfied, superior. Then he traced it all the way back to Lucifer's fall in Isaiah 14, where every declaration begins with "I will." As Pastor Dave put it plainly, "We're most like our adversary when we are prideful."
What landed hardest was his observation about impatience. "When I'm impatient with others, it's because their actions are interrupting my plan — they're taking my time." He said the same is true of unforgiveness: every statement that drives it — "I didn't deserve that," "I want justice," "I'm not letting go of my hurt" — begins with "I." Pride, he argued, is the root of both.
He was refreshingly honest: "I'm preaching to me as much as I'm preaching to you — probably even more to me."
2. Humility: Put It On Intentionally - Drawing from 1 Peter 5:5 and Ephesians 4:1–2, Pastor Dave described humility as two things held together: a modest appraisal of your own importance, and a ready acknowledgment of your dependence on God. He reminded the congregation of Jesus' words — "Without Me, you can do nothing" — and noted how easily we forget them.
"Likewise you younger people, submit yourselves to your elders. Yes, all of you be submissive to one another, and be clothed with humility, for 'God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.'" (1 Peter 5:5)
The image of clothing was his anchor point. We know what someone wore to church because they put it on deliberately. "When it says to put on humility, be intentional to adopt the attitude of humility. Let it be on display in our lives."
3. Patience: Bear With One Another - From Colossians 3 and Ephesians 4:2, Pastor Dave unpacked "longsuffering" — long-tempered, the ability to endure difficult circumstances or difficult people without becoming angry, agitated, or upset. He was quick to admit he doesn't always pass that test.
He told two stories that had the congregation laughing and nodding at the same time. The first was the Cracker Barrel pork chop incident — arguing with a waitress over the plural "chops" on the menu while wearing a New Life Christian Fellowship hat with a cross on it. His wife Pam's quiet correction: "Don't forget what's on your hat." The second was the chicken story — cooking a whole chicken for a woman in need, only to be told not to put barbecue sauce on it because "the cats won't eat it." He drove away agitated, until he sensed the Spirit say, "I led you to give her a chicken. What she does with it is none of your business."
He closed this section with a quote from a revival speaker he heard years ago that he said he didn't like — but never forgot: "The next time someone rubs you the wrong way, just think of them as God's sandpaper smoothing off one of your rough edges."
Pastor Dave closed with a reminder that forgiveness — the third element on the outline — will be covered next week, and invited the congregation to stand and pray together. The closing prayer was honest and direct:
Heavenly Father, as I walk the path of relationships, I ask for the gift of patience and understanding, helping to listen with an open heart, communicate with kindness, forgive with compassion. May my relationships be built on the foundation of love and respect, and may I always seek to understand the perspective of others. Thank you for the blessings of connection and the opportunity to grow through love. In Jesus' name, Amen. (Strength in prayers.com)
What does it really look like to live humbly with the people around...