Poplar Ridge Friends

Poplar Ridge Friends "...walk cheerfully over the world, answering that of God in every one..." George Fox, Journal, 1694

Quakerism was founded in England in the 17th century by George Fox. Early Friends sought a direct experience with God, Christ and the Bible rather than relying on the formalism of the established church. Many Quakers migrated to the American colonies to escape persecution and find religious freedom. The first Quaker Meetings for worship in Cayuga County, New York were held in 1799. The present day

Poplar Ridge Friends Meeting blends the elements of a programmed pastoral Meeting with those of a more traditional unprogrammed meeting, without pastoral direction. Poplar Ridge invites you and your family to their Meeting for Worship. Your participation in prayer, song and meditation is welcome. Our Meeting for Worship leads us to live useful and fulfilling lives in the world. We challenge ourselves and support each other in commitments to equality, integrity, justice, simplicity, environmental stewardship and peace.

Here's the article I talked about in Meeting this morning.
01/11/2026

Here's the article I talked about in Meeting this morning.

This New York Times column spoke to me, particularly in these times. (Interesting that the Times has a writer covering C...
01/01/2025

This New York Times column spoke to me, particularly in these times. (Interesting that the Times has a writer covering Christianity.) You'll need to expand the image, of course to read it.

Joan Baez talks about her Quaker upbringing and spiritual adulthood:
11/26/2024

Joan Baez talks about her Quaker upbringing and spiritual adulthood:

Podcast Episode · On Being with Krista Tippett · 11/26/2024 · 58m

Thanks for everyone who attended our Hope conference last week. It turned out better than even we could hope.
10/27/2024

Thanks for everyone who attended our Hope conference last week. It turned out better than even we could hope.

Here's the New York Times article I mentioned in Meeting today. It's a look at the depth of the country's divisiveness a...
06/09/2024

Here's the New York Times article I mentioned in Meeting today. It's a look at the depth of the country's divisiveness and has me thinking about what I as a Quaker should do about it. Our Testimonies are exceedingly important to me, but what's happening now is real and immediately destructive.

I spoke about hope a few months ago. A team I'm working with now has a website for a project on that theme.
04/14/2024

I spoke about hope a few months ago. A team I'm working with now has a website for a project on that theme.

It is a teachable skill that scientists see as three stages: goal-setting, path-finding, and hope-sustaining, each needing to be cultivated. Hope has a major impact on virtually all phases of one’s life. It focuses our minds and makes us resilient; with hope we are able to face adversity with con...

04/06/2024

ECLIPSE: Here’s “The Morning” column in today's Times, titled “Sun Block.” It mentions Annie Dillard’s 1979 “eclipse on a hilltop in central Washington State,” where I witnessed it myself then. As Dillard is quoted writing: “There was no sound. The eyes dried, the arteries drained, the lungs hushed. There was no world.”

Just so.

My family will do our best, first thing Monday morning, to get to a friend’s house in Skaneateles hoping to avoid a possible tangle of people from everywhere on all our two-lane roads. Here’s the column:

On Monday, the moon will steal between the Earth and the sun, a total solar eclipse in North America. The path of totality, the strip of the continent where the moon will completely obscure the sun, begins in Mazatlán, Mexico, crosses over more than a dozen U.S. states, from Texas to Maine, and ends in Newfoundland, Canada.

For umbraphiles (“shadow lovers,” in Latin), as eclipse enthusiasts are known, this is a big deal. They’ve had hotel rooms in Buffalo and Carbondale, Ill. booked for months if not years. They’re following weather reports closely, praying for cloudless skies.

The first time I heard of an eclipse, I was in sixth grade. My science teacher, too aptly named Mr. Lux (“light,” in Latin), described the mechanics of the event, but what stayed with me, an anxious child, was not the idea of a world plunged into daytime darkness but the risk of permanent retinal damage posed by looking directly at the eclipse. I couldn’t believe I was permitted proximity to this much peril, this much responsibility over my safety. One glance skyward and I could damage my eyesight forever. Why was I just learning about this now?

I didn’t think much of eclipses again until the very branded “Great American Eclipse” of 2017, for which I procured safety glasses and witnessed a few moments of the sun mostly disappearing on a crowded street corner in Manhattan, near my office. The experience was brief, strange, uncoordinated. A quick astronomy interlude then back to work.

This time around, I’ve been considering the eclipse the way I did the coronation of Charles III: It’s not an event of organic fascination for me, but there’s enough hype and chatter afoot that I want in. I’ll read up and geek out so that I understand its significance, so that I can be a part of the pop-up community that materializes when big things are happening. That’s the blessing and the curse of endless information: If everyone’s talking about something, you can join in on the fun! Also, everyone’s always talking about something; why won’t they ever shut up.

Or, as a friend of mine put it grumpily, “Is this a disturbance in the heavens or a pure product of a grotesque news cycle where everything has to be a topic of ‘the national conversation’?”

I heard him, but given an option to quash my cynicism, I’ll always pursue it. I got on a video chat with my friends Christa and Ali, umbraphiles who are traveling from their home in Amsterdam to an Airbnb in the Adirondacks for Monday’s spectacle. In 2017 they rented a house in the path of totality in Oregon, and immediately afterward booked accommodations for this year.

What had they seen last time that made them so eager to do it again?

They described the hours leading up to the eclipse, when the weather gets colder, when you’re suddenly aware of how much the sun is heating us. In Oregon, the streetlights had come on and the birds went silent at 10 in the morning. Kids got tired and more snugly, bedtime behavior triggered.

“I’m not a spiritual person. I don’t usually think about the bigger picture of what we’re swimming in,” Ali said. “But I felt that at the eclipse. I had a sense that I’m this one person in this huge thing.” That’s the feeling she’s hoping to encounter again. Christa compared the experience to the awe felt by astronauts seeing Earth from space for the first time.

Why was I just learning about this now? Or why was I just paying attention now? It’s way too late to travel to see the main attraction, but the next best thing might be reading Annie Dillard’s incandescent account of seeing the 1979 eclipse on a hilltop in central Washington State: “There was no sound. The eyes dried, the arteries drained, the lungs hushed. There was no world.”

Most of our communal enthusiasms these days are human-made: the Oscars, the Super Bowl, the election, the new Beyoncé album. A total solar eclipse is a product of the natural world. It happens without elaborate stagecraft, without any outlay of capital. For this reason alone, it’s a rare occurrence. And there won’t be another in the United States until 2044.

I asked my friend Ali what she hoped to get out of her eclipse trip this year. She’s hoping to leave with a deep sense that we aren’t in control of everything, and that that’s OK. “Sometimes, the things that we’re not in control of are really beautiful,” she said. “It’s not just bad things.”

10/10/2023

I told a dear friend last night I would hold her in the Light, something Quakers say when we mean something like, “I’ll pray for you.” But my mind got fixed on what that means and how I could do as I just promised when all I could think of, in a kind of loop, was my thinking about it.
I woke up this morning my memory flashing on a funeral yesterday afternoon, Gino Alberici’s. It was a traditional Catholic mass filled with music by a singer-piano-player so good she must be a recording artist. I remember Gino as incredibly gentle, sweet, kind to absolutely everyone. A selfless educator, a football coach (of all things). A legend.
I must have met Gino soon after I arrived in Auburn in late 1985, but I don’t know that I ever even had a conversation with him. What I, the editor of the newspaper, learned about him, though, must have drawn me nearly forty years later to this funeral. It was one of the few I have attended since I watched my dad break down at my mom’s funeral though they had been divorced and distant for at least a decade and alcohol finally took her 50-some-year-old life.
Yesterday, in the crammed chapel’s aisle after the funeral, Gino’s extensive family surrounded the casket. Some patted or kissed it. Maxine, Gino’s wife, whom I know better than any others at the funeral, is among them. For years, Maxine firmly helped round me and others up to donate blood.
Now that the casket is out the chapel’s side door and the family slowly exits in the back, they are surrounding Maxine in the aisle. My memory — just mine — sees her glowing in her grief in the aisle, like the chiaroscuro of a dark Renaissance painting. As she passes me still in a pew, in one instant — no more than an instant — she sees and fully acknowledges me, grief shaping her face.
That’s what she and Gino did and do. Wherever they are, whatever they are doing, they fully acknowledge us, one soul at a time, whoever and wherever we are. That’s it, what holding in the Light means.

Poplar Ridge Friends is sad to share the news of Jane Simkin's passing. Her obituary is below.
01/12/2023

Poplar Ridge Friends is sad to share the news of Jane Simkin's passing. Her obituary is below.

Weekly news from New York Yearly Meeting!
12/10/2022

Weekly news from New York Yearly Meeting!

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