09/05/2026
đ WORK IT OUT WITH GRACE
By Larry Kitchell/Campus Pastor
đ Biblical Truth
âIf your brother or sister sins, go and point out their fault, just between the two of you. If they listen to you, you have won them over.â â Matthew 18:15
âïž Devotional
Conflict is part of life.
Even in the family of God, there will be moments when people misunderstand us, disappoint us, hurt us, or simply get things wrong.
The question isnât whether conflict will come.
The question is: How will we handle it when it does?
Jesus gave us a way.
Go directly to the person.
Not to everybody else.
Not to Facebook.
Not to the prayer chain disguised as gossip.
Go to the personâwith love, humility, and a genuine desire to make things right.
If they wonât listen, Jesus says to bring one or two trusted people into the conversation. Not to gang up on them, but to help bring wisdom, truth, and accountability.
If reconciliation still doesnât happen, the church may need to become involved.
But through every step, the goal remains the same:
Restoration.
Biblical confrontation is never supposed to be about embarrassing someone, proving we are right, or winning an argument.
It is about loving someone enough to pursue peace.
And grace does not mean ignoring unhealthy behavior. Forgiveness does not mean removing every boundary. Sometimes love requires truth, accountability, and distance.
But even then, we refuse to let bitterness take over our hearts.
Jesus calls us to something better.
When conflict comes, donât build a case.
Build a bridge.
Because the goal isnât to win the argument.
The goal is to win back the relationship whenever possible.
đ TODAYâS PRAYER
Heavenly Father, give me the courage to confront in love, the humility to listen, and the grace to forgive. Guard my heart from gossip, pride, and bitterness. Help me pursue peace the way You have pursued meâwith truth, mercy, patience, and love. Amen.
â GREATEST TAKEAWAY
Conflict is inevitable, but division doesnât have to be. Go directly, speak truthfully, love deeply, and always leave room for grace.
God bless Yâall! đ