06/10/2026
From Retired Pastor Ernest Peckham:
An African saying declares: “If you want to travel fast, travel alone. If you want to travel far, go together.”
Ecclesiastes 4:9-12 “Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
A Jewish proverb says, “A friendless man is like a left hand bereft of the right.” Having to work with only one hand hinders productivity. When both hands are available, much more can be accomplished and every activity is easier. Two people can accomplish more than only one can. Even if they divide the profits, two can usually make more than one working alone.
I see four advantages for people working together:
1. The reward is increased. Two really can live cheaper than one. Even the Internal Revenue Service recognizes the advantage of this by giving some tax breaks to married couples.
2. A friend who falls has help from someone to “lift” him up, your companion will be there to help you.
3. When it is cold, “if two lie together, they keep warm”.
4. The presence of one or more others makes defeat unlikely: “though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
But just another person, who is not linked with you, leaves you alone, disconnected, and empty. Some people can occupy the same room with no conversation – they are lonely. A companion is not just a person being there, it requires camaraderie and collaboration. The Lord has given us friends and family. They are part of our lives and they bring an increase; help in times of trouble; warmth in times of cold loneliness; and strength to face whatever comes our way.
One person does not qualify as a family. A husband and wife working together can greatly add to each other’s quality of life, and if Jesus is the third Person in that group, He provides immeasurable strength.
Give as well as receive friendship and be connected to Christ.