06/17/2026
One surprising omission from the guest list to Martin and Katie Luther’s wedding was Philipp Melanchthon. Melanchthon and Luther were close friends as well as colleagues but perhaps Luther foresaw his friend’s objection. Writing just four days after the wedding, on June 17, 1525, Melanchthon wrote to his friend Joachim Camerarius:
“Unexpectedly Luther has married Bora, without even informing at least one of his friends beforehand of his intentions …. you are probably surprised that in such serious times, when good people everywhere suffer so much, that he does not share others’ suffering, but even more, so it seems, indulges himself and compromises his good reputation, at a time when Germany right now especially needs his spirit and his authority … the man can be easily misled, and the nuns who in every way lay wait for him, have ensnared him, although he is a noble and stout-hearted man, have papered him and caused the fires of passion to blaze up in him … At this point one must not take amiss what has happened and find fault. For, as I see correctly, he was subject to a natural compulsion to marry. Even though this way of life - marriage - is also lowly, it is nevertheless holy and more pleasing to God than the unmarried state. In addition, I hope that the married state will make him more dignified, and because of that he will give up the tomfoolery, with which we have often found fault,…. Through the many missteps of the holy ones in the first times God has shown us, that we should use his word as the touchstone and not guide ourselves according to the reputation and the person of a human being, but solely according to his word. ‘Whoever condemns the teaching because of a misstep of the teacher, one can on the other hand say, is totally ungodly.’” (Translation from the book “Katherine von Bora: Luther’s Wife” by Martin Treu pp. 31-32)
Was Melanchthon’s frustration true concern for his friend or disappointment over not being invited to the wedding? We can’t tell for certain but it’s possible that it could be some of each. He soon came around and continued to be the most frequent visitor to the Luther house.
Gustav Spangenberg’s famous painting “Luther Making Music in the Circle of his Family” is just one of several that includes Philipp Melanchthon in a painting of the Luther family. It is from about 1875 and in the public domain.
Rebecca DeGarmeaux for Katie Luther