03/05/2021
There is a part of me that really doesn’t want to love my neighbor. Some people are just plain mean, rude and hateful. God is kind, understanding and merciful to us and expects us to be that way with others. Love God, love your fellow human.
So how does one love his neighbor when they come in such a wide variety of characters and personalities? I believe the key is to love them where they are at, not where you want them to be or where you are at.
Scriptures divided humanity into two major groups; one called the “world”, the other called the true Church. The Scriptures also seem to define four different people groups. Those that are hateful or aggressively against God, those that are seeking God, those that are disinterested, and those that have actually been found by God, the true Church or what is called “born again”. Each group benefits from a specific loving approach.
To love someone where they are, it helps to figure out which group they belong to, such as, those in the world who are agressively against God. A great insight to this perspective is the parable of the “Sower”. Matthew 13, “A farmer went out to sow his seed. And as he was sowing, some seed fell along the path, and the birds came and devoured it. Some fell on rocky ground, where it did not have much soil. It sprang up quickly because the soil was shallow. But when the sun rose, the seedlings were scorched, and they withered because they had no root. Other seed fell among thorns, which grew up and choked the seedlings. Still other seed fell on good soil and produced a crop—a hundredfold, sixtyfold, or thirtyfold.”
What group are you in? What group is your neighbor in?
Here is Mark 4:13 to 20 for more insight. “Then Jesus said to them… The farmer sows the word. Some are like the seeds along the path, where the word is sown. As soon as they hear it, Satan comes and takes away the word that was sown in them. Some are like the seeds sown on rocky ground. They hear the word and at once receive it with joy. But they themselves have no root, and they remain for only a season. When trouble or persecution comes because of the word, they quickly fall away. Others are like the seeds sown among the thorns. They hear the word, but the worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth, and the desire for other things come in and choke the word, and it becomes unfruitful. Still others are like the seeds sown on good soil. They hear the word, receive it, and produce a crop—thirtyfold, sixtyfold, or a hundredfold.”
I’m convinced that the greatest love one can express for another is to sincerely pray for them in the power and authority given to us by Jesus. The best way to love someone who is aggressively against you and God is to pray for them. Show them acts of kindness, be merciful. “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,…” These people are not healthy friends so keep your distance and PRAY.
Next post we will discuss more on how to love these different groups. I’m praying for you. Please like or share this post to support this ministry.
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