12/28/2025
WHAT MADE THE FAMILY OF JESUS, MARY, AND JOSEPH HOLY?
If you look at all the pictures of the Holy Family, what does it have in common? Obviously, there are always Jesus, Mary, and Joseph. But who is always in the middle? That’s Jesus. I believe that's what made the family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph holy. When we make Jesus the center of our families, our families can also become holy.
What do we do to make our families holy? In today’s first reading from the Book of Sirach, we learn about the dignity of parents and the deep respect children should have for them. We show our love for Jesus by loving our parents, who gave us life and sacrificed so much for us to be who we are today. By honoring our parents, we not only follow Jesus’ example but we can also receive the promise of long life, the remission of sins, and the storing of riches.
The second way to make Jesus the center of our families is to "put on compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience, bearing with one another and forgiving one another…and over all put on love." When we live out these teachings, we create homes characterized by love and understanding, reflecting the love that God has for each of us. Family life can be challenging when conflicts and disagreements arise. Love is the key to every family conflict and the bond that unites everything in perfect harmony. Always put love before any conflict or disagreement. Do not let conflicts and disagreements destroy love in the family. Let love be the motivation to resolve any conflict in the family. Our families can only be holy and happy when Jesus becomes everything in the family.
And last but not least, prayer is one of the best ways to place Jesus at the center of the family. Going to Mass as a family and especially praying as a family. Mother Teresa said, “The family that prays together, stays together.”
Indeed, a report shows that families that pray together have only 0.06% of divorce rate. If your family has not prayed together, I would encourage you to start doing it, especially young families. It does not have to be lengthy prayers but make an effort to pray together everyday.
Let us pray that Jesus Christ, the source of love and unity, may be the center in each of our families. So that our families can also become holy families modeled after the Holy Family of Jesus, Mary, and Joseph.