10/20/2026
October 20
Have you ever cooked all day to serve a beautiful meal, only to serve it with a bad attitude? People may forget what was on the plate, but they often remember how we made them feel.
Our words are powerful, our attitudes are essential. Someone who is angry and cussing while they cook may be dealing with so many internal things, but that internal state expressed out loud makes a difference in the food and the people around you. I have worked in some of the greatest kitchens in the world and every one of them was extremely busy, but very calm and passionate about why they were there. If you have ever been in a kitchen that was like a war zone, that is a result of the leader. Cook and serve with love and purpose, this makes all the difference.
First Corinthians 13:4 says, “Love is patient, love is kind.”
Yesterday, we talked about patience. Today, let’s consider what we do while we’re being patient and kind.
Kindness is love in action.
It looks like, putting down your phone when someone needs to talk. It sounds like thanking the person who washed the dishes. And sometimes, it means choosing a gentle answer when you’re tired and someone asks you one more question.
Kindness can also mean telling a difficult truth, but doing it with a heart that wants to help, never to humiliate.
Jesus showed kindness to people others pushed aside. He noticed them. He listened to them. He made room for them.
Who might need that kind of kindness from you today?
Before you ask God to put someone in your path, take a moment to notice who’s already there: your spouse, your girlfriend, boyfriend, best friend, aquantence, your child, your coworker, or the person taking your order.
Never underestimate what God can do through one small act of kindness.
Father, help us notice people today. Let Your love shape our words, our tone, and our actions. In Jesus’ name, amen.
Peace be with you, Bob.