05/02/2026
Have you ever been with someone who leads their life with the notion that “It's my way or the highway?" It's pretty hard to deal with persons who think that way. To surrender their choices, opinions, or their will to another person, even to God, is completely foreign to their way of thinking.
However, our Catholic Faith calls on each one of us to move away from a self-oriented culture where we prioritize our own choices and decisions, and to embrace a personal surrender to God.
True surrender to God is not about taking your hands off the wheel; rather, it is an active, dynamic process of recognizing a problem, praying for help, and taking action with divine help. Surrendering to God involves choosing God’s will over our own and saying “no” to anything that contradicts Him.
Stress and anxiety (not good) often comes from trying to control things that only God can control. Surrendering to God leads us to a sense of peace of heart, mind, and soul, because we come to acknowledge God’s authority and let go of the need to make up our own rules.
A number of years ago while visiting Mission San Xavier in Tucson, I ran into this little refrigerator/file cabinet magnetic saying that remains on my file cabinet to this day. I take the liberty of personalizing it because it speaks so loudly to me.
“GOOD MORNING DEACON HERVE! This is God! I will be handling all your problems today. I will not need your help. So, relax and have a good day."
Here’s a post script: surrendering to God is not a one time event for most of us, but a lifelong rhythm that we must recommit ourselves to practice almost every day.
Peace and Good,
Deacon Herve, OFM Affiliate