08/28/2026
Earlier this week, I drove down to Miami for an in-and-out errand.
On the way back, took the I-75. For those of us who live in Pinellas, at some point you have to get off I-75, get onto I-275, and head across the Sunshine Skyway.
Well, for the first time this happened to me, I missed the turn, and there I was, continuing north on I-75. I was not pleased, to say the least. I had already driven to Miami and back, and now this mistake was going to add probably another half hour to my trip.
I started looking for somewhere to turn around, only to realize that once you miss that turn, there isn't a good place to turn around for a long, long time. By the time you can turn around, you're better off just continuing the long way.
This "fun" detour reminded me of a famous story about Rabbi Schneur Zalman of Liadi, the Alter Rebbe, the founder of Chabad.
One of his chassidim had a teenage son who had begun drifting away from Judaism. The father was heartbroken and eventually managed to get his son to visit the Alter Rebbe.
The young man loved horseback riding, and he rode his horse into town. The Alter Rebbe asked him why he had chosen to ride a horse.
"A good horse runs fast," the young man explained. "You reach your destination much more quickly."
The Alter Rebbe responded, "That's true if you're on the right road. But if you're on the wrong road, you travel in the wrong direction much faster!"
The young man thought about it and answered, "Yes, but a fast horse can also get you back to the right road more quickly, once you catch yourself and realize you're going the wrong way."
"Once you catch yourself... once you catch yourself..." the Alter Rebbe repeated. The young man understood exactly what the Rebbe was telling him.
Unfortunately, on I-75, catching yourself doesn't necessarily help, as there is no turnaround. But thankfully, in our relationship with G-d, he allows us to make a U-turn.
We are now entering the month of Elul, approaching Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur. This is the season of Teshuvah, of returning.
Some of us may look at ourselves and think: I've gone too far and made too many wrong turns. I've gotten too far away from the person I want to be, from the Jew I want to be, and from the relationship with G-d that I want to have.
But the Alter Rebbe's message is: Once you catch yourself. The moment you realize you're heading in the wrong direction, you can turn around.
As Rabbi Nachman of Breslov famously taught: If you believe that you can damage, believe that you can fix.
The important thing is not how far you've traveled in the wrong direction, but how fast you catch yourself and turn it around.
Wishing you a Shabbat Shalom!
Shabbat Shalom
Rabbi Pinchas Adler