09/10/2026
Love does not gloat over evil
Franciscan love does not need someone else to lose. Following Christ means refusing to make another person’s failure a source of satisfaction.
It is easy to say, “They deserved it.” Easy to feel relieved when someone who hurt us finally falls. Easy to watch their consequences arrive and quietly think, “Good.”
But the Gospel goes deeper. Love does not celebrate another person's ruin. This does not mean pretending evil is good. St Francis did not confuse mercy with moral indifference. Consequences still exist. St Francis could be uncompromising about sin while still refusing hatred.
You can walk away without hatred.
You can tell the truth without cruelty.
You can accept consequences without celebrating them.
You can forgive without returning to what harmed you.
The real test comes when the person who hurt you begins to suffer. What happens inside you then? Do you want mercy or revenge? Do you want them to become better or simply to hurt as much as you did?
Franciscan way of life means releasing even the satisfaction of seeing someone fall. Because the moment you need another person's suffering to feel vindicated, they still have power over your heart.
🔹️ Catch the satisfaction
🔹️ Choose mercy, not revenge
🔹️ Refuse the gossip
🔹️ Give God the final word
Life is too short to build your peace around someone else’s downfall. People make mistakes, make poor choices, and eventually face the consequences of their actions. Let those consequences belong to them. You do not need to celebrate them, because every time you take pleasure in another person’s failure, you give that person another piece of your heart. Wish them wisdom. Wish them conversion. Then keep walking.