08/19/2026
Psalm 51:10
“Create in me a clean heart, O God; and renew a right spirit within me.”
The Bethel Family is saddened to announce the passing of our dear friend and former member, Hattie Polk (Whitcomb). Please keep Tim and Jessica in your prayers as they grieve the loss of their beloved mother, along with the rest of the family and all who loved her.
A Clean Heart
There are so many words I could use to describe Hattie: caring, gentle, kind, warm, and compassionate. But the one word that stands out most to me is loving. Hattie never had a disparaging word to say about anyone. She had a way of making people feel welcomed, valued, and loved simply by being in her presence.
The relationships we form with our church family often grow into lifelong friendships, and that was certainly true of Hattie and me. Hattie was the oldest child in her family, while I was the youngest in mine. We would often laugh and joke about our experiences, Hattie teasing about being the “disrespected” older sibling, while I would complain about being bullied by my older siblings. Those conversations are memories I will always cherish.
When I think about my childhood at Bethel, I remember singing in the Junior Choir and attending YPD meetings. One of the best things about singing in the Junior Choir was knowing that, regardless of what we sang or how well we sounded, our church family always encouraged and supported us.
We didn’t have choir robes specifically for our age group. Instead, we wore the discarded robes from the Mass Choir whenever they received new ones. Some of those robes were so large that the children looked as though we might be swallowed up by them! And, being children, some of us deliberately chose the biggest robes because we thought it was funny.
There was one song we sang that always stayed with me: “Give Me a Clean Heart.” When I heard that Hattie had passed, that song immediately came to mind. Its message reminded me of the kind of person Hattie was and the kind of life she lived.
No matter what we were doing: helping clean the church in preparation for a visit from the Presiding Elder, holding bake sales, or washing cars so the YPD could have a skating party, Hattie had a way of making everything fun. She was happy, lighthearted, and had the best laugh. If you were having a bad day, Hattie could say something silly that would bring a smile to your face and lift your spirit.
Every time I saw Hattie, she greeted me with a beautiful smile and a warm hug. We would talk about our families, reminisce about the old days, and laugh about the memories we shared. Those moments were gifts, and I will treasure them always.
Hattie, I will miss you, my friend. I am grateful that God allowed our paths to cross and that our childhood friendship grew into a lifelong bond.
When I pray, I often ask the Father to create in me a clean heart and renew a steadfast spirit within me, so that I may draw closer to Him. Hattie’s life reminds me that a clean heart is reflected in how we love, encourage, and care for others.
May God grant her eternal rest and comfort all who mourn her passing.
Rest well, my friend, until I see you on the other side.
Love & Blessings,
Stephanie Smith-Barnes