08/15/2026
Feasting on the Word-August 16, 2026-Reconciliation in Places of Exile
Genesis 45:1-15
How is God at work through conflict and where do we look for reconciliation?
Recall a time when your life took on an unwelcome conflict that you did not plan. Think about how you felt about this turn of events and who you blamed for it, if anyone. Look back on it, how do you feel about it now?
If your feelings have changed, do you now have any sense of something good having come out of that bad experience?
I don’t normally add personal notes to the Sunday School Lesson posted on line, but today I will. My only brother and I were estranged from each other for 16 years over a horrible misunderstanding. I thought I was right about the situation which caused it and it wasn’t my doing. My brother knew the reason for his actions were justified but he didn’t tell me the whole story. After 16 years, I called him and he was out of town, but the next day he called me back and we talked for a very long time on the phone. I found out the reason, which I won’t go into. I hated myself for having been uninformed about the truth which separated us for all those years. I asked him why he didn’t let me know what had happened to him and he said that he didn’t want to cause any trouble. Sixteen years! That’s a long time! We didn’t get to enjoy each other’s kids growing up. We didn’t get to enjoy each other! We reconciled and are best of friends and we don’t let time go by without seeing or talking to each other. Please don’t let time separate you from the ones you love for any reason. Talk it out! Please!
Today’s Scripture affords the opportunity to explore unwelcome situations in which God is present, whether we perceive it or not.
Opening Prayer – Give us discernment of faith, O God, that we may have a sure sense of your presence as revealed in your Word. Amen
Joseph was one of the twelve sons of Jacob
The Story of Joseph
Joseph Dreams of Greatness (Genesis 37:1-11)
Jacob gave his favorite son Joseph a fancy coat. One day, Joseph told his brothers about two dreams. In one, his brothers’ bundles of wheat bowed down to his. In another, the sun, moon and stars all bowed down to him.
Joseph is Sold by His Brothers (Genesis 37:12-36)
Seeing Joseph approach, his brothers plotted to kill him. Reuben, intending to rescue Joseph later, suggested that they throw him in a dry well instead. But in Reuben’s absence, the others sold Joseph to traders. When Reuben returned and found Joseph missing, he tore his clothes in sorrow. The brothers took Joseph’s coat, dipped it in blood, and told their father, Jacob, that Joseph had been killed by wild animals. Meanwhile the traders sold Joseph to the official in charge of the Egyptian palace guard.
Joseph and Potiphar’s Wife (Genesis 39:1-23)
Joseph was Potiphar’s personal assistant. Potiphar’s wife asked Joseph to make love to her, but he refused. One day, Potiphar’s wife grabbed Joseph’s coat and insisted he make love to her. Joseph ran out of the house. The wife accused Joseph of trying to take advantage of her. Potiphar was very angry and threw Joseph in prison.
The Dreams of Two Prisoners (Genesis 40:1-23)
The king threw his personal assistant and cook in prison. One night each man had a dream and told it to Joseph. Joseph told the servant that the dream meant that the king would pardon him in three days. Joseph told the chief cook that in three days, the king would cut off his head. Everything happened just as Joseph said.
Joseph Interprets Pharaoh’s Dream (Genesis 41:1-36)
Two years later, the king had a dream that seven fat cows came to the river to eat grass. Suddenly, seven skinny cows came up and ate them. In a second dream, seven full heads of grain appeared, followed by seven thin heads. The thin heads swallowed the full heads. None of the king’s advisers could tell the dreams’ meanings. Then the servant remembered Joseph. Joseph told the king the dreams meant there would be seven good years of harvests followed by seven years of famine. Joseph advised putting someone in charge of storing up the harvest for the famine.
Joseph’s Rise to Power (Genesis 41:37-57)
Joseph was put in charge and was made governor, second only to the king. For seven years there were big harvests. Joseph stored the extra grain. Then as Joseph had predicted, seven years of famine began. Joseph opened the storehouses and sold the grain to Egyptians. People from all over the world came to Egypt to buy grain.
Joseph’s Brothers Go to Egypt (Genesis 42:1-25)
Jacob sent his sons to buy grain in Egypt, keeping Benjamin at home. Joseph recognized his brothers, but they did not realize who he was. Joseph accused them of being spies. When the brothers protested that they were from Canaan, where the youngest brother was with their father, Joseph demanded that one of them go and fetch Benjamin while the rest remained in prison. After three days, Joseph freed all but Simeon to go back with the grain and bring Benjamin. Among themselves, they discussed that this was the penalty for what they had done to Joseph. They did not realize Joseph understood them; he turned aside and wept. Joseph had their bags filled with grain and secretly had his servant return every man’s money to his sack.
The Brothers Return to Canaan (Genesis 42:26-38)
Along the way, one brother opened his sack and discovered his money. At home, they told Jacob everything. When they all discovered their money had been returned, Reuben asked his father to entrust Benjamin to him to get Simeon’s release. But Jacob, mourning the loss of Simeon as well as Joseph, refused.
The Brothers Come again, Bringing Benjamin (Genesis 43:1-34)
When the famine worsened and Jacob’s family had eaten all the grain, he told his sons to go again to Egypt. Judah replied that the governor had warned them not to return without Benjamin. He promised to bring his younger brother back safely. Jacob instructed the brothers to take gifts with them, as well as twice the money for grain. In Egypt, Joseph saw Benjamin with his brothers and told his servant to take them to his house for a meal. Worried that Joseph might arrest them, the brothers explained to the servant what had happened. He reassured them and brought out Simeon. When Joseph came home, they presented him with the gifts. Upon seeing Benjamin, Joseph was overcome and had to withdraw to weep.
Joseph Detains Benjamin (Genesis 44:1-17)
Later, Joseph instructed is servant to fill the brothers’ grain sacks and again put their money back in the sacks. He also had the servant put Joseph’s silver cup in Benjamin’s sack. They were not on the way long before Joseph sent his servant after them, accusing them of stealing the cup. When the brothers protested their innocence, the servant proposed that only the one found with the cup would become his slave. On searching the sacks, the servant found the cup in Benjamin’s sack. The brothers returned to protest their innocence. Only the guilty party, said Joseph, would have to stay as a slave.
Judah Pleads for Benjamin’s Release (Genesis 44:18-34)
Judah pleaded with Joseph that Benjamin be allowed to return. He reviewed the family history and the loss of Benjamin’s brother, stressing that Jacob was very old and would die of a broken heart if this youngest son did not return. Judah begged to be allowed to stay in Benjamin’s place.
What are some of the emotions Joseph might have experienced?
Today’s Scripture - Genesis 45:1-8 Joseph Makes Himself Known
45 Then Joseph could no longer control himself before all his attendants, and he cried out, “Have everyone leave my presence!” So there was no one with Joseph when he made himself known to his brothers. 2 And he wept so loudly that the Egyptians heard him, and Pharaoh’s household heard about it. 3 Joseph said to his brothers, “I am Joseph! Is my father still living?” But his brothers were not able to answer him, because they were terrified at his presence. 4 Then Joseph said to his brothers, “Come close to me.” When they had done so, he said, “I am your brother Joseph, the one you sold into Egypt! 5 And now, do not be distressed and do not be angry with yourselves for selling me here, because it was to save lives that God sent me ahead of you. 6 For two years now there has been famine in the land, and for the next five years there will be no plowing and reaping. 7 But God sent me ahead of you to preserve for you a remnant on earth and to save your lives by a great deliverance.
8 “So then, it was not you who sent me here, but God. He made me father to Pharaoh, lord of his entire household and ruler of all Egypt.
Genesis 45:9-15 9 Now hurry back to my father and say to him, ‘This is what your son Joseph says: God has made me lord of all Egypt. Come down to me; don’t delay. 10 You shall live in the region of Goshen and be near me—you, your children and grandchildren, your flocks and herds, and all you have. 11 I will provide for you there, because five years of famine are still to come. Otherwise, you and your household and all who belong to you will become destitute.’
12 “You can see for yourselves, and so can my brother Benjamin, that it is really I who am speaking to you. 13 Tell my father about all the honor accorded me in Egypt and about everything you have seen. And bring my father down here quickly.”
14 Then he threw his arms around his brother Benjamin and wept, and Benjamin embraced him, weeping. 15 And he kissed all his brothers and wept over them. Afterward his brothers talked with him.
Jesus begins the process of reconciliation between himself and his brothers. First, he offers them a word of consolation, aimed at quelling their own guilt and anger. This in turn paves the way for them to be able to forgive themselves for having treated Joseph unjustly. Joseph lets them know that he holds no animosity toward them. Joseph eases any tension that his brothers might feel in his presence.
These days, one often hears someone say, “Don’t get mad, get even.” What other responses might Joseph have made now that his brothers were under his control and at his mercy?
Joseph decided not to kill his family but, instead, to welcome them all and to offer his house. Almost an impossible gesture, but one based on God’s offering of life in the midst of death, forgiveness instead of justified hatred, kisses and hugs instead of strangling somebody.
Letting Go of a conflict experience can be the first step toward reconciliation. Prayer can be the answer that will help you reach resolution.
Closing – Psalm 67
Leader - May God be gracious to us and bless us and make his face shine on us—so that your ways may be known on earth, your salvation among all nations.
Class - May the peoples praise you, God; may all the peoples praise you.
Leader - May the nations be glad and sing for joy, for you rule the peoples with equity and guide the nations of the earth.
Class - May the peoples praise you, God; may all the peoples praise you.
All - The land yields its harvest; God, our God, blesses us. May God bless us still, so that all the ends of the earth will fear Him.
Amen