09/08/2026
Two Sons, One Porch
On Sunday I preached from Luke 15, the story of a father with two sons. And I have to tell you, I did not read it this time as a pastor. I read it as a dad.
We usually spend our time on the younger son, the one who asks for his inheritance early, which in that world was a way of saying, you are as good as dead to me. You know how it goes. He burns through the money and comes back rehearsing a speech he never gets to finish, because the father sees him a long way off, feels compassion, and runs. All decorum gone. His boy was alive!
But here is where the story caught me. The older son resents everyone in it. He hears the music from the field, hears there is a party for his brother, and refuses to come inside. He stands out in the dark doing the math on his own faithfulness, tallying up years of obedience like an invoice. And Luke tells us the father went out to him. The same father who ran down the road for one boy walks into the night for the other.
One son left home with his feet. The other left home with his heart. And the father could not rest until both of them were in.
I understand that father in a way I could not have before I had children of my own. Because the truth is, I want all of them at the table. I want the noise of them in the house. When one of my children keeps a distance from me, whether they crossed a country to do it or just crossed their arms, something in me goes out looking. It’s what being their father means.
I used to think this story was about repentance, and it certainly is. But it’s also about a father who can’t stand having his children outside. The welcome isn’t a reward for the younger son's return, and it isn’t a rebuke of the older son's resentment. It’s just who the father is. "Everything I have is yours," he says. The place at the table was always set. It was set before anybody left and it stayed set the whole time they were gone.
So whichever son you are today, the one who wandered or the one who stayed and simmered, hear this: The door is not locked. It was never locked. God has been walking toward you the whole time, down the road or out into the dark, ready to bring you in.
Pastor Matt Hastings
“His father said, ‘Son, you don’t understand. You’re with me all the time, and everything that is mine is yours—but this is a wonderful time, and we had to celebrate. This brother of yours was dead, and he’s alive! He was lost, and he’s found!’” - Luke 15:31-32 (MSG)