Ocean Park United Methodist Church

Ocean Park United Methodist Church Ocean Park United Methodist Church
P.O. Box 326
1202 262nd Place
Ocean Park, Wa 98640
360-665-4177
[email protected]

11/08/2021
08/29/2021

August 29, 2021
Opening Prayer Hear O’ Israel, the Lord is our God, the Lord is One.
Affirmation
I am a Beloved Child of God and a Beauty to Behold.
Shine Jesus Shine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3beqUs3dPVo

In every church that I have served, there have been people who left under my leadership, and people who have joined the church. It is the way with all pastoral appointments.
In my first appointment after seminary, I had a person who left, and took her husband and best friend. However, on my last Sunday before a new appointment, a couple of years later, they came back for my last Sunday and worship service.
I began the service by saying, “This is my last Sunday and so I can say whatever I want because I won’t be here next week!” The look on this woman’s face was priceless! I could see she was regretting coming back.
Then I said, “And I am going to say what is in my heart through music. Today we will sing my favorite songs.” When people left after worship, her husband gave me a hug and was very tearful. She stayed away because she “had a cold.” I was always grateful for their willingness to come that day and say good-bye.
The little church was full that day. I had done several funerals in the little town for people who did not belong to the church but came to say good-bye. It was humbling. I also said, “If I’d known this is what it would take to fill the church, I would have left sooner!”
This little story is my prelude into saying, this is my last Sunday at Ocean Park UMC. I am stepping down due to health problems. I am grateful for whom I’ve met in my 3+ years here, whether they left or stayed during my appointment. So, let’s sing our way out of here!
Call to Worship
Opening
May our creator God inspire and encourage us all
And set our imaginations on fire with love
Prayer
Creator God, who made us in your image
and gave us that same passion to create, and ability to originate.
Jesus Christ, motivating us
with your example of innovation, compassion and service
Holy Spirit, inspiring us with the breath of God
blowing through our hearts with the fire of imagination
Fill us with a vision for this world and our place within it,
give us the tools that we might craft beautiful things for you,
and encourage the artist in each one of us
to fashion our lives in imaginative service of you
The Chapel August 27, 2021
Song There’ll Be Sunshine in the morning Jim Strathdee https://vimeo.com/461675060
Opening Psalm
Psalm 139
Lord, you have seen what is in my heart.
You know all about me.
2 You know when I sit down and when I get up.
You know what I’m thinking even though you are far away.
3 You know when I go out to work and when I come back home.
You know exactly how I live.
4 Lord, even before I speak a word,
you know all about it.
5 You are all around me, behind me and in front of me.
You hold me safe in your hand.
6 I’m amazed at how well you know me.
It’s more than I can understand.
13 You created the deepest parts of my being.
You put me together inside my mother’s body.
14 How you made me is amazing and wonderful.
I praise you for that.
What you have done is wonderful.
I know that very well.
17 God, your thoughts about me are priceless.
No one can possibly add them all up.
Song Amazing Grace/My Chains Are Gone https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrwkCOUOliI

Prayer for Our Community:
There are many concerns that we lift up in prayer today:
For the families of the American soldiers who died at the bombing at Kabul, Afghanistan
For the families of the Afghans who lost their lives in the same bombing.
For military that continue to be at risk in Kabul (I pray for Matthew, a physician, who is serving at the Kabul airport and hospital)
For the Afghans who are trying to leave the country and for those who are trying to leave
For those who are in the path of hurricane Ida
For those who are besieged by fire and their loss
For those who are ill: Especially Frances who went to hospital this week. For the members of my church community who lost a daughter to cancer this week. For those who are suffering from Covid, and for those who refuse to receive the vaccine.
Teachers and students as they return to school
What prayers are upon your heart today?
Song Our Father https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=urNG3t5M26s
Scripture
Romans 8:26
Common English Bible
26 In the same way, the Spirit comes to help our weakness. We don’t know what we should pray, but the Spirit himself pleads our case with unexpressed groans.
Message: I Don’t Stop Giving Thanks Pastor Denise
For years I’ve taught classes on “how” to pray. I’ve taught Lectio Divina, Centering Prayer, Intercessory prayer, Praying the Psalms, and on and on. Recently, I have come to realize that I don’t know anything about prayer or how to do it. I can still “say the words”, but I’m not sure what the words mean any longer. And, I find that unsettling. And if I am to be honest, I feel like a fake, because I “don’t know what (I) should pray.” This past week a friend called essentially to say good-bye. The cancer is back and within 4 days she went from feeling okay to being hospitalized to being discharged to hospice. I know that prayer gives her comfort and so I asked if I could pray for her. Yes, it would bring her comfort. I didn’t know the words, but I found some words, but the Spirit understood that my prayers were “unexpressed groans.”
I have, for the fourth time now, used the same scripture as I have left a congregation. This is the prayer that speaks for me, my “unexpressed groans.”
Ephesians 1:15-23
Paul’s prayer for the Ephesians
15 Since I heard about your faith in the Lord Jesus and your love for all God’s people, this is the reason that 16 I don’t stop giving thanks to God for you when I remember you in my prayers. 17 I pray that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, will give you a spirit of wisdom and revelation that makes God known to you. 18 I pray that the eyes of your heart will have enough light to see what is the hope of God’s call, what is the richness of God’s glorious inheritance among believers, 19 and what is the overwhelming greatness of God’s power that is working among us believers. This power is conferred by the energy of God’s powerful strength. 20 God’s power was at work in Christ when God raised him from the dead and sat him at God’s right side in the heavens, 21 far above every ruler and authority and power and angelic power, any power that might be named not only now but in the future. 22 God put everything under Christ’s feet and made him head of everything in the church, 23 which is his body. His body, the church, is the fullness of Christ, who fills everything in every way.
I don’t like “good-byes.” I don’t like not knowing the future (I know, I used a double negative which equals a positive and I could use another negative to bring it back to the negative, but I think you get what I’m trying to say). The unknown frightens me. What I know is every time I’ve truly stepped out in faith, I have landed on my God-given feet. I count on that now.
Dear people, Whether I’ve met you or not, you have been a blessing to me. All of these years of having the privilege of consecrating and serving the bread and the cup; the years of taking water and baptizing an infant, sometimes held in death, already in God’s arms, or the elderly patient who indicated she wanted to be baptized literally on her death bed, have blessed me more than I can say. When I was in seminary, I met a couple and we became close friends. He had throat cancer. The last several times I saw him he wasn’t able to speak until…. The last time, he was able to pray for my family as we were getting ready to return home. His last words to me were a prayer! How humbling is that?
I have so many memories to take with me. The times I have laughed until I cried. The times I cried because I was so broken, I didn’t think even God could put me back together. The bible studies and book studies that changed my life forever, not because of the books (although you can’t beat a Richard Rohr book), but because of the people I studied with. Because I am a pastor, I had the privilege of meeting Mahatma Gandhi’s grandson and heard first hand the stories of the man who has helped to shape my life.
I know that every personal encounter that I’ve had, whether the person liked me or not, has blessed and changed my life in a significant way. And, for that, I will always be grateful.
I don’t like good-byes, so I won’t say those words. Instead, I will simply say, “thank you.”
Reverend Denise Westfall-Neuschwander
Song Hymn of Promise (My favorite hymn) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8RHek8k5WoY
Benediction
You are the children of God,
gifted with dreams and visions.
Upon you rests the grace of God
like flames of fire.
May the deep peace of Christ be with you,
the strong arms of God sustain you, and
the power of the Holy Spirit strengthen you
in every way.
Amen.
Go in peace, Christ is with you.
Thanks be to God.

Prayer for Peace
Cheyenne Tribe

Let us know peace for as long as the moon shall rise.
For as long as the rivers shall flow.
For as long as the sun shall shine.
For as long as the grass shall grow.
Let us know peace.
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Postlude Spirit Song (For the man who has supported me in ministry all of these years, this is his favorite hymn) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6PYx0PXOyo8
Toe-tappers to set your heart to dancing!
Dance With the Spirit Jim and Jean Strathdee
https://strathdeemusic.com/DanceSpiritIm.html

I Woke Up This Morning Jim Strathdee
https://strathdeemusic.com/WokeUp.html
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Amen
08/24/2021

Amen

ALL things are possible with God.

August 22, 2021Opening Prayer Hear O’ Israel, the Lord is our God, the Lord is One.AffirmationI am a Beloved Child of Go...
08/22/2021

August 22, 2021
Opening Prayer Hear O’ Israel, the Lord is our God, the Lord is One.
Affirmation
I am a Beloved Child of God and a Beauty to Behold.
Call to Worship
The Lord be with you.
And also with you.
O Lord Open up my lips
And my mouth shall declare your praise.
Glory be to the Father and to the Son, and to the Holy Spirit; as it was in the beginning is now and will be forever.
Amen.
Prayer for Our Community:
O Great Love, thank you for living and loving in us and through us. May all that we do flow from our deep connection with you and all beings. Help us become a community that vulnerably shares each other’s burdens and the weight of glory. Listen to our hearts’ longings for the healing of our world. [Please add your own intentions.] . . . Knowing you are hearing us better than we are speaking, we offer these prayers in all the holy names of God, amen.
Father Richard Rohr

Message: Thank God for Immigrants Pastor Denise

It is Monday, August 16, 2021. I attended the zoom morning devotional from The Chapel. The Chapel takes place Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, and it is here that I receive strength for the journey.
This morning Nadia Bolz-Weber addressed the earthquakes in Haiti and the hurricane, soon to arrive. I am stunned by the rawness of her insight and the boldness of her message. I simply must share it. Warning: Nadia’s language can be salty, but in context it is very real. You may watch the video on the link below. I encourage that you do that for many reasons, but one is that Rev. Matthew David Morris sings a beautiful song as part of the presentation. Or, you can read the script below. I will respond after Nadia shares with us.
https://m.thechapel.io/posts/daily-prayer-august-16-2021
In 2010 I stumbled upon a story about televangelist Pat Robertson’s response to the earthquake. Robertson had crawled out from whatever kind of bottom-dwelling theological backwater hellhole he calls his ideological home to enlighten America about the reason the earthquake happened: Haiti had made a pact with the devil and so, really, they’d brought this upon themselves.
The assigned text that week was the wedding at Cana, Jesus’ first miracle, turning water into wine. Nobody wants to hear of God’s generosity and an abundance of wine when people on the streets of Haiti have no running water and are thirsty.
The events of the earthquake in Haiti brought with them a lot of questions about God, and none of them has to do with parties. One atheist blog I read that week used the earthquake to make a case against believing in God at all. The writer implied that he could not believe in a God who would inflict such suffering on so many people, which made me admit that according to that definition I must be an atheist, too, because I don’t believe in that God either.
It would seem that Pat Robertson and the atheist were of one mind: that God causes suffering. In Robertson’s case, God causes suffering so that God might punish all the people who Robertson dislikes. In the case of the atheist, since God allowed the earthquake and all the concomitant suffering to happen, God doesn’t deserve to be believed in. Either way, God is a heartless bastard standing in heaven like a maladjusted kid burning us like ants with his divine magnifying glass. I understand the impulse to see it that way. But as a preacher, I could hardly say it from the pulpit.
So, I just kept reading the story of the wedding at Cana over again. I was hoping to discover something, I’m not even sure what, when suddenly, as though she had just sort of snuck into the story, I noticed Mary. Mary, the distraught mother of our Lord, might just be the key to seeing how the text spoke to our mourning and confusion.
The story of turning water into wine took place at a wedding when Mary looks to her son and tells him that the wine has run out. “Woman,” Jesus says to his mother, “my hour has not yet come.” To which Mary is like, Oh yeah? Too bad. OK, she didn’t really say that, but she did simply turn to the servant and say, “Do whatever he tells you. ” I know it’s a little melodramatic in the context of wine, but in the wake of Haiti’s devastation, I started to imagine Mary tugging at the shirt of Jesus and saying, I will not keep silent. I will obey you and I will tell others to obey you but I will not keep silent. People are thirsty.
Mary only shows up twice in John’s Gospel, and both times her son calls her “woman.” Once is here at the wedding. The other is when she stands at the foot of the cross. She watches her son and her Lord hang innocent from a cross with the weight of the world’s suffering tearing at his very flesh.
In a time when we were wondering where the hell God was, the only place I could find an answer from this otherwise seemingly irrelevant text was with Mary, gazing at the cross. Because at the cross, God enters into our human tragedy.
As a pastor, I’m asked to find God in suffering. And every time I go looking for God amidst sorrow, I always find Jesus at the cross. In death and resurrection. This is our God. Not a distant judge nor a sadist, but a God who weeps. A God who suffers, not only for us, but with us. Nowhere is the presence of God amidst suffering more salient than on the cross. Therefore, what can I do but confess that this is not a God who causes suffering. This is a God who bears suffering. I need to believe that God does not initiate suffering; God transforms it.
That passage in John reads like this: Standing near the cross of Jesus were his mother, and his mother’s sister, and Mary Magdalene. When Jesus saw his mother and the disciple whom he loved standing beside her, he said to his mother, “Woman, here is your son.” Then he said to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” After this, when Jesus knew that all was now finished, he said, “I am thirsty.” “I am thirsty,” he says. “I am not watching this from a distant heaven. I too am thirsty.”

The stations of the cross are a traditional form of prayer in which the observer walks a path or around a room, meditating on a dozen or so simplified images of Jesus’ suffering and death, from when he was condemned until when he was laid in the tomb.
Stations of The Cross
(In video only)
We choose to believe Jesus was there in Haiti. We know he was there. We hope he was there. We needed him to have been there. He was there. He was there. We will not keep silent. Pat Robertson was wrong. Amen.
Denise’s Response: It is Friday, August 20, and as if things in the world couldn’t get worse, the plight of the Afghan people could not be more terrifying, especially for girls and women. The Taliban has taken over Kabul. I have a young friend, a physician, who is the Army and he is Kabul. He wrote this prayer this week:
Keep watch, dear Lord, with those who work, or watch, or weep this night, and give your angels charge over those who sleep.
Tend the sick, Lord Christ; give rest to the weary, bless the dying, soothe the suffering, pity the afflicted, shield the joyous; and all for your love’s sake. Amen.
For the poor, the persecuted, the sick and all who suffer; for refugees, prisoners, and all who are in danger; that they may be relieved and protected, we pray to you, O Lord. Amen.
Thinking and praying this night for Afghans who fear as they watch what is happening in their country, specifically for those who have faithfully aided the Coalition over the past twenty years and face danger for that reason.
I can’t get the images of people hanging onto the airplane, knowing that if the plane takes off it is certain death for them and yet, they hold on, literally, for dear life.
Dr. Matthew Perkins

We don’t have to go far to find the God of sorrow and the God of life, and death. Open your eyes. They are right here.

I heard a politician, and I can’t remember which one, say that we should take in the Afghan immigrants who had helped Americans in this twenty- year war. I don’t disagree with that, however… We can see the war in Afghanistan. We hear the Taliban speak and we do not trust their words. What about the ones who come to us and we have only their words to judge by? Those who come to us from El Salvador or Nicaragua or Mexico? Because we have deemed that they have done nothing for the U.S. people, they don’t belong here. As long as we can’t see their suffering, we don’t need to listen to it, or believe it.

Haiti. Did you know that less than 1% of the people have had access to vaccine against corona virus? And yet, we have people who scoff because their liberties are being preyed upon because they have the chance to help put this virus in its place by taking a couple of shots and wearing a mask. Do you think the 99% of the people of Haiti would be so selfish? Heck, give them a bottle of water and they will be grateful. That’s what we want, isn’t it? Those less fortunate groveling at our feet for a drink of water.

“Denise, you are being so harsh!” Yes, I am. And I am just as harsh on myself. I’ve received both shots and will probably go for number 3. I wear a mask. And I grieve. I grieve for the self-serving people who would not offer a cup of water. I grieve for the doctors and nurses and first responders who have put themselves in harm’s way to help others, in the hospital and in Kabul, Central America and in Haiti. I grieve for the children who are scared, hungry, and have no place to lay their head and are separated from their family, put into cages and told, “this is like summer camp!” Maybe it is for them. Probably it’s not.

Many thanks to Rev. Nadia Bolz-Weber, Rev. Matthew David Morris and Dr. Matthew Perkins for being a part of this worship service today.

Song God Help the Outcast Bette Midler
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMff5jH1tTs

Benediction
You are the children of God,
gifted with dreams and visions.
Upon you rests the grace of God
like flames of fire.
May the deep peace of Christ be with you,
the strong arms of God sustain you, and
the power of the Holy Spirit strengthen you
in every way.
Amen.
Go in peace, Christ is with you.
Thanks be to God.

Prayer for Peace
Cheyenne Tribe

Let us know peace for as long as the moon shall rise.
For as long as the rivers shall flow.
For as long as the sun shall shine.
For as long as the grass shall grow.
Let us know peace.
www.worldhealingprayers.com
Postlude Let There Be Peace on Earth https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BpzUyzVEFZc
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Good morning, I come to you from the week hour of 5:06 a.m.  Life is different in the dark and the quiet.  It is somehow...
08/15/2021

Good morning, I come to you from the week hour of 5:06 a.m. Life is different in the dark and the quiet. It is somehow steady. I pray steady for you today. Blessings, Pastor Denise Westfall-Neuschwander
August 15, 2021
Opening Prayer Hear O’ Israel, the Lord is our God, the Lord is One.
Affirmation
I am a Beloved Child of God and a Beauty to Behold.
Hymn Amazing Grace/My Chains Are Gone https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YrwkCOUOliI
Call to Worship adapted from Psalm 111
The LORD is gracious and compassionate.
God provides food for those who will receive it;
God remembers God’s covenant forever.
God has shown the power of God’s works,
giving them the lands of other nations.
The works of God’s hands are faithful and just;
We can trust in our God.
Song Holy Ground/ We Are Standing on Holy Ground https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bTx36JyflOQ
Prayers of the People by Richard Einerson
Eternal God, we thank you today for your goodness. You have given us beautiful days. You bless us richly with goodness daily. We thank you and praise you.

We live in a time of considerable confusion. We ask today for your wisdom as Solomon asked for wisdom. We are often fearful as was Solomon. We live in a time of peril, war, and world unrest. Different and competing interests strive for our attention and loyalty.

Help us, O God, to pray for wise and discerning spirits.

Give us wisdom to know good from evil.
Give us wisdom to assess the clamoring voices and concerns with which we are daily bombarded.

Give us wisdom so that we might learn to be accepting of all the diverse people you have created.

Give us wisdom to be peacemakers and mediators of understanding where there is conflict.

Give us wisdom when we are in conflict to make it possible both for us and for those with whom we differ to save face and win and move forward hand in hand.

Give us wisdom not to violate any of your creatures by discriminating against them.

Give us wisdom to discern what is of ultimate value for our souls and to make wise choices.

O GOD, GIVE US WISDOM.
O GOD, GIVE US DISCERNMENT.
O GOD, GIVE US THE WILL TO BE FAITHFUL.
O GOD, GIVE US THE POWER TO LOVE. Amen

Hymn In My Life, Lord, Be Glorified https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e5bpU3hzMXs

Offering
Thank you for thinking of OPUMC and for your generosity.
Ocean Park UMC (OPUMC)
P. O. Box 326
Ocean Park, WA 98640

Scripture John 6:51-58 Common English Bible
51 I am the living bread that came down from heaven. Whoever eats this bread will live forever, and the bread that I will give for the life of the world is my flesh.”
52 Then the Jews debated among themselves, asking, “How can this man give us his flesh to eat?”
53 Jesus said to them, “I assure you, unless you eat the flesh of the Human One and drink his blood, you have no life in you. 54 Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise them up at the last day. 55 My flesh is true food and my blood is true drink. 56 Whoever eats my flesh and drinks my blood remains in me and I in them. 57 As the living Father sent me, and I live because of the Father, so whoever eats me lives because of me. 58 This is the bread that came down from heaven. It isn’t like the bread your ancestors ate, and then they died. Whoever eats this bread will live forever.”

Message You Are What You Eat Pastor Denise

What's the meaning of the phrase 'You are what you eat'?
The proverbial saying 'You are what you eat' is the notion that to be fit and healthy you need to eat good food.
What's the origin of the phrase 'You are what you eat'?
The origin of 'You are what you eat'.
The originator of 'You are what you eat' was Anthelme Brillat-Savarin. His version was 'Tell me what you eat and I will tell you what you are. 'You are what you eat' has come to into the English language by quite a meandering route.
In 1826, the French lawyer Anthelme Brillat-Savarin wrote, in Physiologie du Gout, ou Meditations de Gastronomie Transcendante:
"Dis-moi ce que tu manges, je te dirai ce que tu es." (Tell me what you eat and I will tell you what you are.)

In an essay titled Concerning Spiritualism and Materialism, 1863/4, Ludwig Andreas Feuerbach wrote:
"Der Mensch ist, was er ißt."
[Man is what he eats]
Neither Brillat-Savarin or Feuerbach meant their quotations to be taken literally (that would be rather messy). They were stating that that the food one eats has a bearing on one's state of mind and health. Although they coined French and German variants of 'you are what you eat', the phrase didn't migrate into other languages and wasn't used in English until decades later.
'You are what you eat' emerged in English in the 1930s. That's when the American nutritionist Victor Lindlahr, who was a strong believer in the idea that food controls health, developed the Catabolic Diet. That view gained some adherents at the time and the earliest known printed example is from an advert for beef in a 1923 edition of the Bridgeport Telegraph, for 'United Meet [sic] Markets':

"Ninety per cent of the diseases known to man are caused by cheap foodstuffs. You are what you eat."
You are what you eat - Lindlahr

The American nutritionist Victor Lindlahr coined and popularized
the expression 'You are what you eat'.

In 1942, the phrase entered into the public consciousness when Lindlahr published You Are What You Eat: how to win and keep health with diet. Lindlahr is likely to have also used the term in his radio talks in the 1930s to 50s (now lost unfortunately), which would also have reached a large US audience.

The phrase wasn't much used in the years after Lindlahr stopped his radio broadcasts in 1953 but got a new lease of life in the 1960s hippie era. The food of choice of the hippie champions of the 'you are what you eat' idea was macrobiotic whole-food and the phrase was adopted by them as a slogan for healthy eating.

You are what you eat - Adelle Davis The macrobiotic campaigner
The belief in the diet in some quarters was so strong that when Adelle Davis, a leading spokesperson for the organic food movement, contracted the cancer that later killed her, she attributed the illness to the junk food she had eaten at college.
Some commentators have suggested that the idea is from much earlier and that it has a religious rather than dietary basis. Roman Catholics believe that the bread and wine of the Eucharist are changed into the body and blood of Jesus (Transubstantiation).

So, is the phrase catabolic or Catholic?

Transubstantiation certainly links food and the body, but there doesn't appear to be any documented link between the belief and the phrase. It's safe to assume the origin is more about supper than supplication.

There are several claimants to the coinage of 'you are what you eat' but there's no doubt that it was Victor Lindlahr who brought it to general public attention. (https://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/you-are-what-you-eat.html)

As a “fallen away” Catholic, the phrase “you are what you eat” was certainly taken in a spiritual fashion. And as I look down at the 30 lbs. I would like to lose, I know, “you are what you eat” is definitely more literal!

This morning I would like to propose some ideas about the spiritual meaning of “you are what you eat” in light of what Jesus said, “51 I am the living bread that came down from heaven. Whoever eats this bread will live forever, and the bread that I will give for the life of the world is my flesh.”

To be clear, we are not talking about cannibalism! In the early years of the church, this is how the scripture was interpreted by those outside the faith. So, what does it mean?

I don’t know. However, I will give you some thoughts to ponder.
Even in the 100+ weather in Spokane, WA, my brother sent pictures Tuesday of the two loaves of bread he had just baked. What does bread have that makes one bake it even when the climate calls for lemonade with extra ice?

My mother baked a lot bread. To come home from school to the smell of freshly baked bread was a sign of love and a sign that we would be fed that night with love.

Food nourishes the body. Food is a necessity. Food is delicious! Here is the question of the day: What does God feel when we reject God’s life-giving self?

Debi Thomas writes, “That is, what is at stake for God in this invitation? If Jesus is the bread of life, what is it like for him to feed us? How does a feeding, nourishing God experience our “consumption?” What does Jesus feel when we refuse his sustenance? (Journey with Jesus, August 15, 2001)

If you have children, or nieces or nephews or been to a restaurant, you have witnessed a child who refuses to eat what is put in front of them. How does that parent feel? I felt angry that my child was behaving this way in public. I was embarrassed by such behavior. If we were at home for dinner, I could send the child to their room, out of my sight. But what I really wanted was for my child to eat, what was put before them. I wanted them to enjoy the food and the companionship. I wanted meal time to be something we looked forward to, not another hour- long fight to eat cauliflower!

Do you remember in Christmas Story when the family is at the dinner table and Randy, the youngest, won’t eat his dinner? Dad wants to send him to bed. Mom coaxes him to eat: Randy, what does the piggy say? (oink oink) That’s right. And how does the piggy eat? (face first into the mash potatoes)

My son David was my little piggy. We would replay the scene from Christmas Story, my husband did a great job of imitating the dad (oh, wait a minute, he wasn’t imitating anyone. He was grossed out), and I would laugh so hard, as the mother did in the movie.
And Thanksgiving! My son’s favorite holiday! Lots of mash potatoes to dive into (which he doesn’t do any longer). The food is great (except the year we thought craisins would be good in the stuffing. No, they are not.), but it is the comradery as we bake pies, and bread, and get the turkey ready. It is communion with one another.

God has offered us the bread of life in Jesus. We can throw a tantrum and refuse the grace offered to us. We can cautiously try a bite to see if we like it. Or, we can say “thank you” and consume all the grace God has to offer in Jesus!

“Those who eat my flesh and drink my blood abide in me, and I in them,” he says in our Gospel reading this week. I wonder what profound pleasure God takes in this intimate, bodily abiding.
But there is another side to eating. Or should I say, not eating. It is a mental health diagnosis of anorexia nervosa. The mental picture that one has of themselves is distorted. And, it is distorted in a physical way that when the person looks in the mirror, they see what they imagine, not what is real. They see “fat” as opposed to the American ideal of “thin.”

If you know someone with this disease you know that every bite is a victory, and every bite is dangerous. Sometimes the disease gets to the point that its bearer must be fed via a tube to keep them alive. Debi Thomas writes of her experience with her daughter:
Wrecked by anxiety, perfectionism, and American culture’s toxic obsession with thinness, our daughter had developed anorexia nervosa, one of the deadliest of all mental illnesses. Within a matter of months, our family dining table became a battlefield. Grocery shopping became an exercise in desperation and agony.
All attempts at persuasion failed, and my husband and I faced the real prospect that our child might starve herself to death in the name of what her illness insisted was “health.”

There are no words to express what I felt as a mother as I watched my child waste away. All I wanted in the universe was to feed her. To cook anything she’d eat, to place warm and nourishing plates of food in front of her and coax her — even if it took hours — to take those essential nutrients into her weakened body. When she kept refusing, my heart broke, hardened, and broke again. Too many times to count. I panicked. I seethed. I grieved. I begged. I experienced a kind of powerlessness I hope never to experience again. I was her mother. The one who was supposed to nurture, nourish, feed, protect, and sustain my children. What was this monstrous sickness that made basic, elemental feeding impossible? (ibid.)

How does God feel when I see myself in a distorted fashion? How does God feel when I refuse the life-giving bread that is right in front of me? How does God feel when I settle into anxiety or depression because I’m not “good” enough and I know I never will be? How sad does God get when the ones God loves so mightily don’t hear the words, “You are a beloved child of God, and a beauty to behold”?

In our lectionary this week, Jesus doesn’t mince words: Unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood,” he says, “you have no life in you.” I know that his words sound harsh and unforgiving, but I wonder if we might hear them as the desperate words of a parent who knows exactly what makes for life and what makes for death — and longs to spare her children the latter. I wonder if Jesus sounds the alarm so urgently because he knows how much and how badly we need the nourishing, life-sustaining food he alone can provide. I wonder if he, too, grieves and weeps, seethes and pleads, fears and hopes, when we walk away from his table, refuse his bread, and say no to his outstretched hands. I wonder how he sits with his own vulnerability, his own powerlessness — the terrible cost of the freedom he’s given us to starve ourselves if we so choose. I wonder how our Mother God yearns to gather us around her table, coax the bread of life into our mouths, and watch us once again thrive and flourish under her care.

“Whoever eats me will live because of me,” Jesus says. He is our bread, he is our bread, he is our bread. Our lectionary asks us to linger over this truth for a reason; this teaching is elemental. It is rock bottom. It is the core of who God is, and who we are. May we ever eat, and live. (Ibid.)

Hymn One Bread, One Body John Foley https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8FFHmGUaylA

Benediction
Receive this blessing:
You are the children of God,
gifted with dreams and visions.
Upon you rests the grace of God
like flames of fire.

May the deep peace of Christ be with you,
the strong arms of God sustain you,
and the power of the Holy Spirit
strengthen you in every way.
Amen.

Dismissal
Go in peace, belief and comfort and risk and community are yours this day and every day, to treasure and to share.

Postlude What Does the Lord Require of You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UNv1z2qwZHU

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