05/17/2026
“The Lord forbid that I should do this thing to my master, the Lord’s anointed, to stretch out my hand against him, seeing he is the anointed of the Lord.” So David restrained his servants with these words, and did not allow them to rise against Saul.
(1 Samuel 24:6–7 NKJV)
I keep hearing this word in my spirit: Unity.
It keeps coming to me as I prepare for my day.
The Spirit of God is gathering His Church and preparing to accomplish great things in the earth and in our lives. But if we are going to walk in what God is doing, we must first be careful how we handle one another.
Jesus gave His disciples a powerful lesson when they were concerned about who would sit at His right and left hand in the Kingdom. His answer was clear:
The Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve.
There are some things I would rather stay away from saying, simply because we live in a time where people are ready to pounce on anything they consider controversial. But I believe the Spirit of God is grieved when we trample on the Body of Christ.
Jesus shed His blood to redeem us. He loves His Church so deeply that we will never fully understand all He suffered for humanity. Every believer matters to Him. Every member of the Body was purchased with His blood.
So I want to take a moment to warn the Church.
Be careful how you handle the Body of Christ.
Be careful how you speak about people Jesus died for.
Be careful that your zeal does not become strife.
Be careful that your discernment does not become accusation.
Be careful that your correction does not become destruction.
This is a word to all of us.
The Bible says:
“Endeavoring to keep the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.”
(Ephesians 4:3 NKJV)
Notice, we are not told to create unity. We are told to keep it.
That means unity is something the Holy Spirit produces, but we are responsible to guard it.
That does not mean we compromise truth. It does not mean we ignore false doctrine. It does not mean we pretend everything is right when it is not.
But it does mean we must speak the truth in love.
It means we must correct with humility.
And honestly, if a ministry is built mainly on negative, divisive posts, constant attacks, and public fault-finding, I would have to question the fruit of that ministry.
We must remember that Jesus is the Head of the Church, and the Church is His Body.
You cannot love the Head and keep wounding the Body.
You cannot claim to defend Christ while carelessly attacking the people He purchased with His own blood.
Yes, there are false teachers. Yes, there are false prophets. Yes, there are con artists, wolves, and people who fall into criminal behavior. Those things must be addressed. As Christians, we must take a stand for righteousness.
But if you are building a platform primarily on exposing people, attacking ministries, and finding fault, then it is time for some honest self-reflection.
Always finding fault is carnal.
Paul warned the Galatians:
“But if you bite and devour one another, beware lest you be consumed by one another!” (Galatians 5:15 NKJV)
That is a serious warning.
The enemy does not have to destroy a church that is already devouring itself. He just watches believers do his job for him. And this is not only for those who air their grievances on a public platform. This is for all of us. It is for every person who grumbles, criticizes, and speaks carelessly when pastors, leaders, or other believers do not live up to their expectations.
David gives us a powerful example.
David was hiding in a cave because Saul was hunting him. Saul had become jealous, angry, and obsessed with destroying David, even though David had served him faithfully.
Then Saul unknowingly walked into the very cave where David and his men were hiding. David’s men saw it as the perfect chance to strike back. They believed God had delivered Saul into David’s hands.
But David refused.
David said:
“The Lord forbid that I should do this thing to my master, the Lord’s anointed, to stretch out my hand against him, seeing he is the anointed of the Lord.”
The Scripture also says:
“David restrained his servants…”
I believe it is high time for some restraint.
Restraint in our words.
Restraint in our posts.
Restraint in our accusations.
Restraint in our reactions.
It is time to check our hearts and make sure we are truly about the Father’s business.
David did not agree with Saul’s behavior. He did not pretend Saul was right. But David refused to let Saul’s wrong spirit produce a wrong spirit in him.
That is spiritual maturity.
We need the fire of God, but we also need the love of God.
We need sound doctrine, but we also need clean hands.
We need boldness, but we also need humility.
We need discernment, but we also need mercy.
The Holy Spirit does not flow freely in strife, pride, offense, and division. He moves where Jesus is honored, where the Word is obeyed, and where the brethren dwell together in unity.
That is where the anointing flows.
That is where the blessing is commanded.
That is where the oil runs.
Honestly, we may not be able to stop people from gossiping, attacking, and posting destructive things on social media. But we can refuse to support it.
We can refuse to visit those pages.
We can refuse to reward it with our clicks.
We can refuse to feed it with our comments.
We can refuse to participate in tearing down what Jesus died to redeem.
Church, let’s contend for truth without losing love.
Let’s expose error without becoming hateful.
Let’s walk in boldness without becoming arrogant.
Let’s protect the unity of the Spirit, because the greater glory will not rest on a divided, offended, self-consuming Church.
Jesus is coming for a glorious Church.
And it is time we start treating His Body like it belongs to Him.
Blessings