10/21/2026
THE STRENGTH OF THE WISE
SCRIPTURE
“Strength and honor are her clothing; she shall rejoice in time to come. She opens her mouth with wisdom, and on her tongue is the law of kindness.” — Proverbs 31:25–26 NKJV
REFLECTION
Strength is often associated with the ability to take charge, overcome opposition, or make ourselves heard. We tend to notice strength when it is visible and forceful. Yet Scripture gives us a much broader understanding of what it means to be strong.
The woman described in Proverbs 31 is capable, industrious, discerning, generous, and wise. She manages responsibilities, makes decisions, provides for others, and speaks with understanding. Her strength is not presented as a threat to those around her. It is something that contributes to their well-being.
Notice that wisdom and kindness are connected in the way she speaks. She is not portrayed as someone who lacks convictions or avoids difficult conversations. Rather, her words are governed by understanding and concern for others. She knows that what is said matters, but so does the manner in which it is spoken.
We have all experienced the influence of words. A careless remark can remain with someone for years. Criticism spoken in anger can discourage a person who is already struggling. On the other hand, a timely word of encouragement can restore courage, and wise counsel can help someone make a decision that changes the direction of a life.
The ability to speak with wisdom requires more than having knowledge. It requires patience, discernment, and the willingness to consider how our words will affect another person. Sometimes wisdom means speaking when silence would be easier. At other times, it means refusing to say something simply because we have the opportunity.
This kind of strength is not limited to women, nor is it limited to the home. It is needed in churches, workplaces, friendships, communities, and every place where people interact. The world may encourage us to prove our strength by winning arguments or asserting ourselves over others. Christ teaches us to use whatever strength we possess in ways that reflect His character. A strong person does not have to diminish someone else to demonstrate strength. The wisdom that comes from God makes room for both truth and kindness.
PRAYER
Father, develop in me the kind of strength that reflects Your character. Give me wisdom in my decisions and kindness in my words. Help me recognize when I need to speak and when I need to listen. May the people around me be strengthened rather than diminished by my influence. In Jesus' name, amen.