11/27/2019
God Cares - Helping families affected by Addiction - Part 13
Growing through Difficulty
WHY DOES God allow painful events to invade people’s lives? This is one of the hardest questions of life—and an inevitable challenge for those who have a family member with an addiction. Embarrassment, unpredictability, financial cost, betrayal, and even physical and mental abuse
frequently accompany addiction
Please understand that God did not create pain. Pain is the result of the presence of sin in the human race. Adam’s and Eve’s sin in the Garden of Eden created the conditions for pain to regularly, yet unevenly, affect everyone. What
God is able to do (and what He wants to do) is convert difficulty into a learning and strength-building experience
Just as physical strength is built when a person lifts weights (instead of feathers), spiritual strength comes when you push through and learn from difficulty rather than run from it. Now, to be clear, this does not mean that you should remain in the middle of a dangerous or damaging situation. In those instances, you should take refuge as soon as possible (see Proverbs 22:3). However, you can still learn from and grow stronger through every difficulty.
You can learn to rely on God more, pray more, discover which strategies work (or don’t work), which friends are helpful (and which are not), and many other lessons that will make
you a stronger and deeper person. The New Testament book of James states, “Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. And let endurance have its
perfect result, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing” (James 1:2–4). It’s a tough truth to grasp, but
difficulties and trials are effective tools in the production of spiritual strength and maturity
Discussion
1. What helps you to choose growing stronger over becoming
bitter?
2. How have you grown through your experience with an addicted person?
3. Name some practical things you are doing when your experience becomes more difficult.
Scripture
Look up and discuss how the
Scriptures below apply to this
session’s topic.
• Romans 8:28
• 2 Corinthians 1:3–4
• 1 Peter 1:6–7